I am requesting information for a friend in a stressful situation.... My friend has two small children. One is in school and the other is not school age yet so she stays home with him until that time. She has been court ordered to meet the NCP at X place every other weekend. She makes this trip every other weekend reguardless of weither he shows or not because she is court ordered to do so. There have been many times when he would not show up and now since her drive is even longer this is becoming a problem. She has tried to contact him to see if they could possibly modify the visitations so that he could make it on the times court ordered to get the children. He refuses to do anything but tell her that she has to sit there until he arrives to get the children and that she will get into trouble because she left the designated place for him to get the children even if he don't show up until the next day. She loves her children and she only wants to do what is right in the courts if in the best intrest of the children but since he fails to show up(Has not shown up in over a month) and being $4,000+ in arrears CLEARLY shows his lack of child support. She is wondering what she should do now. She just needs to know I guess if since he is not showing up for visits and he has not been helping her financially should she continue to take the children there just to have them disappointed once again. She does document her visits and it is documented when he shows and when he does not.
ANY HELP OR ADVICE WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED THANKS.
ANY HELP OR ADVICE WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED THANKS.