I am based at Fort Campbell KY but case is in West Virginia:
I had a gf that had became pregnant before being deployed to Iraq. After one month in Iraq she had left me to be with another man in West Virginia. Since returning to the states I have found out that this man she had left me for had slept with her the same week of conception. I have also found out from her family members that on her way from KY to West Virginia she had also stopped of at another mans home and had sex with him. The child support office of West Virginia says since I am SUPPOSEDLY the father that I have to cover the baby medically. We are awaiting a paternity test to find out for sure even though I have sent her some money and I even left her in care of ALL my money while deployed so that she and the baby would be taken care of. Basically what I need to find out is WHEN (If I am proven to be the father) AM I RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHILD SUPPORT. I have 3 other children from a previous marraige and I have custody of 1 of those children. I just really don't want to be sending this woman money IF this child is not mine. WILL THEY CHARGE ME CHILD SUPPORT FROM THE DAY THE BABY WAS BORN?
One more thing... She refuses to allow me to see the child because I would not take her back and I have a new GF now. ONCE PATERNITY IS PROVEN, if I am the father, CAN SHE KEEP ME FROM SEEING THE CHILD BECAUSE I HAVE A GF THAT LIVES HERE?
I had a gf that had became pregnant before being deployed to Iraq. After one month in Iraq she had left me to be with another man in West Virginia. Since returning to the states I have found out that this man she had left me for had slept with her the same week of conception. I have also found out from her family members that on her way from KY to West Virginia she had also stopped of at another mans home and had sex with him. The child support office of West Virginia says since I am SUPPOSEDLY the father that I have to cover the baby medically. We are awaiting a paternity test to find out for sure even though I have sent her some money and I even left her in care of ALL my money while deployed so that she and the baby would be taken care of. Basically what I need to find out is WHEN (If I am proven to be the father) AM I RESPONSIBLE FOR THE CHILD SUPPORT. I have 3 other children from a previous marraige and I have custody of 1 of those children. I just really don't want to be sending this woman money IF this child is not mine. WILL THEY CHARGE ME CHILD SUPPORT FROM THE DAY THE BABY WAS BORN?
One more thing... She refuses to allow me to see the child because I would not take her back and I have a new GF now. ONCE PATERNITY IS PROVEN, if I am the father, CAN SHE KEEP ME FROM SEEING THE CHILD BECAUSE I HAVE A GF THAT LIVES HERE?