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d_fantasia
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I am not sure where I need to post this question, so I figured I would just do it here. *smile*
Ok, I am a mother of 3 wonderful children. In the process of divorce. Starting over. I was out of state for the last 8 years. When I moved back 'home' due to the D, I found a nice house for the kids and I.
Now, for the confusing part... before moving into this house. A child that I used to take care of (she was 11 at the time) contacted me. She asked if she could live with my children and I. So, I set up some 'rules' (ie... no late nights. Be home by 12 pm, so she doesn't wake me 'cause I have to get up early and go to work. And pick up after herself. That's it, no more, no less)
Well, we moved into this house on Jan 11. All was happy, until I found that she was doing drugs. I asked her to leave. (I will NOT tollerate that, on my childrens behalf. I fully support the DARE and MADD programs.)
Now for my questions:
1.) How long does she have to get the rest of her belongings out of the house? (I have asked her to on MANY occasions- but she is 'always too busey)
I know I need to send her a letter requesting this. But what I would really like to know is how long do I have to keep her belongings before I can get rid of them? In other words; if I sent her a letter tomorrow, how long does she have to get it before she has no more rights to it? (by the way, she was never on the lease)
Also, while she was here (the last day that she was here as a matter of fact) she used my phone to make a 1-900 phone call to a physic hotline. She was on the phone with them for 60 mins. Which put a charge of $284.00 on my bill.
She has admitted to doing this. And has left messages about this on my voice mail.
What are my rights, and what can I do to get the money from her?
Any/all suggestions are welcome!
Thank you!!
Ok, I am a mother of 3 wonderful children. In the process of divorce. Starting over. I was out of state for the last 8 years. When I moved back 'home' due to the D, I found a nice house for the kids and I.
Now, for the confusing part... before moving into this house. A child that I used to take care of (she was 11 at the time) contacted me. She asked if she could live with my children and I. So, I set up some 'rules' (ie... no late nights. Be home by 12 pm, so she doesn't wake me 'cause I have to get up early and go to work. And pick up after herself. That's it, no more, no less)
Well, we moved into this house on Jan 11. All was happy, until I found that she was doing drugs. I asked her to leave. (I will NOT tollerate that, on my childrens behalf. I fully support the DARE and MADD programs.)
Now for my questions:
1.) How long does she have to get the rest of her belongings out of the house? (I have asked her to on MANY occasions- but she is 'always too busey)
I know I need to send her a letter requesting this. But what I would really like to know is how long do I have to keep her belongings before I can get rid of them? In other words; if I sent her a letter tomorrow, how long does she have to get it before she has no more rights to it? (by the way, she was never on the lease)
Also, while she was here (the last day that she was here as a matter of fact) she used my phone to make a 1-900 phone call to a physic hotline. She was on the phone with them for 60 mins. Which put a charge of $284.00 on my bill.
She has admitted to doing this. And has left messages about this on my voice mail.
What are my rights, and what can I do to get the money from her?
Any/all suggestions are welcome!
Thank you!!