My husband and I are military members stationed overseas at different locations. I'm in South Korea, he is in Japan. My home of record is California, I was married in Neveda, my state of legal residence is Tennessee, and the last place I lived in the U.S. was Arizona. I thought I could file in TN but was told "no" since I have never actually lived in the state. He won't file but says he will sign all papers. Where do I file for divorce? Is there anywhere I can go to obtain residence and get a quick divorce?