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I have not been on the forum for about three years. SInce then my ex took me to court in 2006 for 50/50 custody of our alomost now six year old. I tried to meet him half way but for whatever reason we went to priority where the mediator was not half as forgiving as I was and when my ex did not like to outcome he gave me sole custody. Has not paid any of his child support him and his wife are not to have any contact with me (even though his lovely wife keeps sending me letters, and tried to talk to me through email, I have not responeded to any). Since then my ex has had a second baby with his wife (our daughter knows of the first, when we were trying to work things out of the court). My question now is the ex's mom and step dad has always been around our daughter and as complicated as it gets sometimes I deal with it cause my daughter loves them. But recently the mom is starting to play games, I have flatt out told her I did not think it was wise introducing our child to another sister, I feel it would just confuse her, since her dad has no intentions of being a father to our daughter. Yet she keeps dropping suddle hints about the other sister. Did I choose wrong? How do I deal with the ex's mom, do I violate my court order and allow the sisters to see eachothe. How do i explain to my child that ther dad is not there for her but is for the others. Thanks for your time.
I have not been on the forum for about three years. SInce then my ex took me to court in 2006 for 50/50 custody of our alomost now six year old. I tried to meet him half way but for whatever reason we went to priority where the mediator was not half as forgiving as I was and when my ex did not like to outcome he gave me sole custody. Has not paid any of his child support him and his wife are not to have any contact with me (even though his lovely wife keeps sending me letters, and tried to talk to me through email, I have not responeded to any). Since then my ex has had a second baby with his wife (our daughter knows of the first, when we were trying to work things out of the court). My question now is the ex's mom and step dad has always been around our daughter and as complicated as it gets sometimes I deal with it cause my daughter loves them. But recently the mom is starting to play games, I have flatt out told her I did not think it was wise introducing our child to another sister, I feel it would just confuse her, since her dad has no intentions of being a father to our daughter. Yet she keeps dropping suddle hints about the other sister. Did I choose wrong? How do I deal with the ex's mom, do I violate my court order and allow the sisters to see eachothe. How do i explain to my child that ther dad is not there for her but is for the others. Thanks for your time.