moynihan1129
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY
My daughter was born in March this year. Since she has been born, I updated my W4 at work to claim her as a dependent. She gets health benefits through my employer. Her mother and I lived together (were not married) in my house until about 2 months ago wen we broke up. Her mother never helped with the mortgate, utilities, etc as far as housing expenses. She occasionally bought diapers and some baby food. I pay for all daycare and all expenses incuding cloting, etc. The only expenses that she incurs for our daughter is food and diapers on her days of visiation. She also has no housing expense as she is staying with a friend. We have joint custody with me having physical placement. Her visitaion is every sunday night and alternating saturday nights. My ex informed me over the weekend that she has also decided to claim our daughter on her W4 so that she will get an extra $20 or so a week from her part time job. She also advised me that she plains to claim her on her taxes to get the child tax credit, EIC, etc so that she can use the money to get her own apartment and that there is nothing I can do because she only needs the W2 from her part time job and will file before I get everything I need to file (W2, Property tax, student loan interest statements, mortgage interest statements, 401K, stocks, etc). Is she entitled to claim her as a dependent even though our daughter does not physically live with her and she pays less than 5% of all of her expenses? There is not child support order as I did not file since it did not seem woth the $10 a week I might get. Rather, I chose not to since I know she can't even afford herself on her own. I just do not want to do anything illegal as far as claiming her on my taxes and at the same time do not believe she is entitled to the tax benefits of an expense she does not incur. Any advice is appreciated.
My daughter was born in March this year. Since she has been born, I updated my W4 at work to claim her as a dependent. She gets health benefits through my employer. Her mother and I lived together (were not married) in my house until about 2 months ago wen we broke up. Her mother never helped with the mortgate, utilities, etc as far as housing expenses. She occasionally bought diapers and some baby food. I pay for all daycare and all expenses incuding cloting, etc. The only expenses that she incurs for our daughter is food and diapers on her days of visiation. She also has no housing expense as she is staying with a friend. We have joint custody with me having physical placement. Her visitaion is every sunday night and alternating saturday nights. My ex informed me over the weekend that she has also decided to claim our daughter on her W4 so that she will get an extra $20 or so a week from her part time job. She also advised me that she plains to claim her on her taxes to get the child tax credit, EIC, etc so that she can use the money to get her own apartment and that there is nothing I can do because she only needs the W2 from her part time job and will file before I get everything I need to file (W2, Property tax, student loan interest statements, mortgage interest statements, 401K, stocks, etc). Is she entitled to claim her as a dependent even though our daughter does not physically live with her and she pays less than 5% of all of her expenses? There is not child support order as I did not file since it did not seem woth the $10 a week I might get. Rather, I chose not to since I know she can't even afford herself on her own. I just do not want to do anything illegal as far as claiming her on my taxes and at the same time do not believe she is entitled to the tax benefits of an expense she does not incur. Any advice is appreciated.