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hugemistake

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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? mo

my ex husband calls me by my first name when talking to my children!!!! what can i do to make sure he calls me mom when speaking to them? my children deserve to be spoken to about me as mom and not by my name. im working on getting custody from him so can i use this in court that he refuses to refer to me correctly to my children?
 


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Isis1

Senior Member
hugemistake said:
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? mo

my ex husband calls me by my first name when talking to my children!!!! what can i do to make sure he calls me mom when speaking to them? my children deserve to be spoken to about me as mom and not by my name. im working on getting custody from him so can i use this in court that he refuses to refer to me correctly to my children?
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this sounds familiar.....where have i heard this story before...

do your children refer to you as mom, or by your first name?
 
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Antigone*

Senior Member
hugemistake said:
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? mo

my ex husband calls me by my first name when talking to my children!!!! what can i do to make sure he calls me mom when speaking to them? my children deserve to be spoken to about me as mom and not by my name. im working on getting custody from him so can i use this in court that he refuses to refer to me correctly to my children?
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You have got to be kidding:eek:

There is NOTHING you can do to force him to refer to you as "mom" to the kids.
 
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Hisbabygirl77

Senior Member
hugemistake said:
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? mo

my ex husband calls me by my first name when talking to my children!!!! what can i do to make sure he calls me mom when speaking to them? my children deserve to be spoken to about me as mom and not by my name. im working on getting custody from him so can i use this in court that he refuses to refer to me correctly to my children?
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What ages are the childre? Are they younger where they now try and call you buy your first name? Or are the old enough to know to call you mom? Is he trying to make them call you by your name? I ask because quite frequently my own husband calls me by my first name and yet my kids know to call me mom. Also, my older three call my husband by his name even though he adopted them it was what they were use to but the two younger ones although hearing his name used all the time have never tried to use it. They call him dad.
 
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Antigone*

Senior Member
Hisbabygirl77 said:
What ages are the childre? Are they younger where they now try and call you buy your first name? Or are the old enough to know to call you mom? Is he trying to make them call you by your name? I ask because quite frequently my own husband calls me by my first name and yet my kids know to call me mom. Also, my older three call my husband by his name even though he adopted them it was what they were use to but the two younger ones although hearing his name used all the time have never tried to use it. They call him dad.
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His, it does not matter - none of it does. No judge is going to make this or any other man refer to a woman by the word "mom," especially when he is referring to her by her given name.

I could understand sanctions if he were calling her tramp or worthless or any other host of derogatory names, but he is not.

Mama needs to get a grip.:cool:
 
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Isis1

Senior Member
okay, lady. i just read your first two threads.

you will not be getting custody of your children. your ex has so much on you and you are probably facing long term prison time. the state has a better chance of getting custody then you do.
 
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Hisbabygirl77

Senior Member
Wirelessany1 said:
His, it does not matter - none of it does. No judge is going to make this or any other man refer to a woman by the word "mom," especially when he is referring to her by her given name.

I could understand sanctions if he were calling her tramp or worthless or any other host of derogatory names, but he is not.

Mama needs to get a grip.:cool:
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Lol I realize it doesnt matter...guess I was just trying to show her she was making a mountain out of a molehill. Kids are smart they know who mom is.
 
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Antigone*

Senior Member
I just skimmed this poster's history and I come to realize that the OP has a point...kind of.

Dad should refer to her as mom. In fact he should refer to has as POOR EXCUSE of a MOM to be exact.
 
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Hisbabygirl77

Senior Member
Wirelessany1 said:
I just skimmed this poster's history and I come to realize that the OP has a point...kind of.

Dad should refer to her as mom. In fact he should refer to has as POOR EXCUSE of a MOM to be exact.
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Dang it wirelessany1 now your made me wanna check out the history and I should be studying for my midterm.....sigh :p
 
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JKBee

Member
Everyone speaks of pulling up former posts. Being almost totally computer illiterate, is there anyone out there who can tell me how to do this? I would really appreciate some help learning this computer and this forum.
 
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