worried about bad influences and need help

[oneangrymom]

i live in west virginia i have a problem with my ex he is continually a bad influence on my 6 yr old son he was recently arrested for shop-lifting and has lied to me on numerous occaisions the problem is he is trying to get my son to lie. when something occurs that he doesn't want to tell me but my son tells me he say no thats not right remember it happened this way which is confusing my son. he will also tell me he has to work so he can't take him on saturday when he is really not working how old does the children have to be to refuse visitation and can i get a supporvised vistation he also doesn't follow his medical regulations my son has arthritis and he doesn't listen to his needs ihave sole legal custody he has evry other weekend visitation help thanks

 

[kindbear]

something should be able to be done! you probably need to talk to some people. if no one answers you, try to ask the question again. i have been haveing a hard time getting responses myself. good luck and you will make it. keep looking out for your son he will be fine.

 

[jeanine]

My two cents

Once again, I have to agree with EVERYTHING AngryDad says. I live in NY and the courts here stink! In Nassau County to be exact. My husband has NEVER missed child support, yet he hasn't seen his son for "visitation" since December. The mother NEVER gets in trouble, yet if he were to miss his child support, he would be arrested and have his license taken away. Where's the logic in that?

And I've said it before: it takes TWO to make a baby and TWO to support that child. Lord knows I will continue working when I have children. I'm tired of these BM's sucking their former husband's wallets dry. Yes, children should be supported but it should be by both parents. And a father's right to visitation should be as important as that check every week!