ohiomomof3
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What is the name of your state?OHIO
My ex (NCP) whom I have tried and tried to get support from, has finally made it to the court system. I recieved a copy of a letter sent to him requesting employer information, and getting a job if he's claiming to have none. There was no date on it for court, but it said he will be recieving an appointment, and if he misses he will be found in contempt of his CO. Apparently he recieved a date, and missed it last week. I had no knowledge of it, other than keeping on the CSEA about him working under the table all year , and we get turned down for assistance, because I work so much overtime. He made a handful of payments through the year, like 3-5. They seem to calculate support in there as income whether or not I get it. I have 3 children. I was wondering, if once they do obtain him, would the case be reviewed or modified at all? His amount has exceeded 10,000. I pay more for childcare, and now have 300/month in insurance for the kids through work. His amount was based on the minimum due to being unemployed our first time around. I know he makes a lot more than I do .And has no bills, since he lives off of friends, family, and women. We found out xmas day that his new mate of one month is pregnant, and he was hoping to get support lowered. Is he nuts? Won't the judge just be that more upset airing that kind of news in court for contempt on a prior child? Just wondering if anything will arise to benefit us in the future. Thanks.
My ex (NCP) whom I have tried and tried to get support from, has finally made it to the court system. I recieved a copy of a letter sent to him requesting employer information, and getting a job if he's claiming to have none. There was no date on it for court, but it said he will be recieving an appointment, and if he misses he will be found in contempt of his CO. Apparently he recieved a date, and missed it last week. I had no knowledge of it, other than keeping on the CSEA about him working under the table all year , and we get turned down for assistance, because I work so much overtime. He made a handful of payments through the year, like 3-5. They seem to calculate support in there as income whether or not I get it. I have 3 children. I was wondering, if once they do obtain him, would the case be reviewed or modified at all? His amount has exceeded 10,000. I pay more for childcare, and now have 300/month in insurance for the kids through work. His amount was based on the minimum due to being unemployed our first time around. I know he makes a lot more than I do .And has no bills, since he lives off of friends, family, and women. We found out xmas day that his new mate of one month is pregnant, and he was hoping to get support lowered. Is he nuts? Won't the judge just be that more upset airing that kind of news in court for contempt on a prior child? Just wondering if anything will arise to benefit us in the future. Thanks.
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