<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Arial, Helvetica, Verdana">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Waldo:
Could someone offer some advice for a friend of mine going through a horrible tragedy. Her fiance was killed in an accident= he was attempting to pass a slow moving tractor, driven by a hired farm hand, when the accident occurred. They have a new born baby together. He supported them so she was able to stay home with the baby. She now has no source of income, no job experience or skills. He had no life insurance. Any advice is appreciated.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
Hi Waldo,
First off, there's nothing so disturbing and heartbreaking as children who are left behind in cases of parental death. I am sorry to hear of you and your friends/baby devastating loss. My heart goes out to all of you.
I felt compelled to write because I can relate to your desire to help in any way you can. So I do have a suggestion that may be of some positive light in your friends loss.
I have 2 friends who recently lost their mates to accidents leaving surviving young children behind. In both cases, my friend's were actually ex-spouses of the men who passed on. Between the 2 friends, 4 children were left behind by their Daddy's.
In BOTH cases, they are receiving the Social Security benefits their fathers had accumulated by way of those hefty federal tax deductions that are taken out of our paychecks every payday...you know the ones. Each child recieves an amount in Social Security Benefits, in monthly payments. I believe they will continue to receive benefits until they reach the age of 18.
Since you say he was supporting the 2 of them...he must have been working a "regular" steady job, with that comes TAXES! So, definately tell your friend, RUN!, DON'T walk to the nearest regional SSA offices.
For more immediate information and a downloadable manual on how to apply for Survivor Benefits.........
GOTO:
http://www.ssa.gov
BTW, your friend shouldn't sit on this (tho I know it's hard to find the motivation), she needs to go to her regional SSA office as soon as possible to start the proccess. Benefits are not retroactive and it takes a while before a first check comes through. Maybe you could even take her?? She will need a friend like you,,,,, like never before, trust me...I know.
All the best to you,
Snidely