What is the name of your state? MA
Hello all. I realize you guys are not fortune tellers but I'm wondering your opinions please. My X was ordered to pay 321 a week, it has been wage assigned, he paid for a year. Well, now he is pulled out of service at work, no income, and after arbitration he will be fired. They found an illegal substance in his system when he was random tested. He has severe depression and pstd. He went to a shrink and she said he should be permanetly disabled. He says they cannot take CS out of this. He says he will try to pay me a little each week, but the days of 321 are over. He just started working for a measly 10$ an hour under the table. He is going to court to try to modify the support order, as we all know, it will keep adding up. I had a lawyer he didn't, I do get 50% of his pension plan but I think that is at retirement. What about my kids? They are only 8 and 13.
What do you think the judge will do considering these circumstances? He made this choice. He has blamed me for everything, saying the pressure of paying CS, and his job, which is very stressful, is the cause of his substance abuse. He never paid into SS it is RRR. (railroad) Am I entitled to any support from his pension? Can he just walk away from support? Does anyone know of any other resources I may have? He has wanted me to sell my home all along and live in an apartment with the kids(like he does).A year ago I refi in my own name and paid him some equity. No one wants to move, my broker said it would be stupid to sell, just for my mortgage to be lowered 500$. My mortgage is $2000 a month.I live in an affluent area and would have to move further west . I am a bartender on the weekends, the kids need me during the week, my pay is well, but not enough to support this home. Do I have to go to welfare or something? I have been racking my brain for solutions. My kids are on the discount lunch program and i applied for electric assistance. I am so afraid I will lose my home. My home is not ready to sell as it is half painted, and a few other minor problems. Does Anyone know of any resources I may have? Thank you formerlsa
Hello all. I realize you guys are not fortune tellers but I'm wondering your opinions please. My X was ordered to pay 321 a week, it has been wage assigned, he paid for a year. Well, now he is pulled out of service at work, no income, and after arbitration he will be fired. They found an illegal substance in his system when he was random tested. He has severe depression and pstd. He went to a shrink and she said he should be permanetly disabled. He says they cannot take CS out of this. He says he will try to pay me a little each week, but the days of 321 are over. He just started working for a measly 10$ an hour under the table. He is going to court to try to modify the support order, as we all know, it will keep adding up. I had a lawyer he didn't, I do get 50% of his pension plan but I think that is at retirement. What about my kids? They are only 8 and 13.
What do you think the judge will do considering these circumstances? He made this choice. He has blamed me for everything, saying the pressure of paying CS, and his job, which is very stressful, is the cause of his substance abuse. He never paid into SS it is RRR. (railroad) Am I entitled to any support from his pension? Can he just walk away from support? Does anyone know of any other resources I may have? He has wanted me to sell my home all along and live in an apartment with the kids(like he does).A year ago I refi in my own name and paid him some equity. No one wants to move, my broker said it would be stupid to sell, just for my mortgage to be lowered 500$. My mortgage is $2000 a month.I live in an affluent area and would have to move further west . I am a bartender on the weekends, the kids need me during the week, my pay is well, but not enough to support this home. Do I have to go to welfare or something? I have been racking my brain for solutions. My kids are on the discount lunch program and i applied for electric assistance. I am so afraid I will lose my home. My home is not ready to sell as it is half painted, and a few other minor problems. Does Anyone know of any resources I may have? Thank you formerlsa