x uses child as pawn

[psychox]

i live in indianaWhat is the name of your state? my x has continued to use my 3yr old daughter as pawn because she is jealous of my new wife. my cs is witheld from my check due to indiana law so she gets her support but she has not been home when i have went to pick up my child since jan 2,2005. i have spent thousands of dollars on lawyers just to get vistation rights because i was never married to the psycho. she has stalked my wife, her bf has threatend us and she constantly dangles the child, if ask for my vacation time her answer maybe you can maybe you cant or if you werent with her you could see your daughter. i am tired of spending thousands of dollars on lawyers because everytime she sees something new she wants to take us back to court to raise my support. i am constantly getting serverd with papers for ridiculus things like modifying visitation pick up and dropoffs you name it. I am currently awaiting a court hearing against her for contempt of my visitations do you have any advice because i do not want to spend more money on lawyers

 

[casa]

i live in indianaWhat is the name of your state? my x has continued to use my 3yr old daughter as pawn because she is jealous of my new wife. my cs is witheld from my check due to indiana law so she gets her support but she has not been home when i have went to pick up my child since jan 2,2005. i have spent thousands of dollars on lawyers just to get vistation rights because i was never married to the psycho. she has stalked my wife, her bf has threatend us and she constantly dangles the child, if ask for my vacation time her answer maybe you can maybe you cant or if you werent with her you could see your daughter. i am tired of spending thousands of dollars on lawyers because everytime she sees something new she wants to take us back to court to raise my support. i am constantly getting serverd with papers for ridiculus things like modifying visitation pick up and dropoffs you name it. I am currently awaiting a court hearing against her for contempt of my visitations do you have any advice because i do not want to spend more money on lawyers

EVERY single time the child is not at the established place/time for visitation, file a police report documenting it. (Keep a copy of your court order in your car so you always have it handy).

You can file contempt yourself- you need to research the proper way, but it is possible. If she repeatedly defies court order she will be found in contempt (as long as you can prove it- which is why documentation is important). Trust me, after she does it a few times a judge will be less than pleased and she will risk fines, jail time or even loss of custody. Be consistent and be patient. She'll learn to cooperate or have to pay for it.