What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
I have a YouTube channel where I post funny video game clips for fun. A few weeks ago I posted a game of my friend and I playing Call of Duty (we have permission to post it, that isn't the issue here) and him talking about his ex girlfriend. He's careful to never say her name or give away any personal information about her whatsoever, and the gist of the story is that she cheated on him, etc. She saw the video and filed a privacy violation complaint with YouTube and they denied it due to the fact that he/I never mentioned her name, and he could have been talking about any of the 5-6 ex girlfriends he has had.
Then someone at her school discovered the video and left a comment with her name and phone # (my friend and I were not aware of the comment, as there were hundreds of comments from general gaming fans on YouTube and it would have been impossible to read all of them). The girl called the police and they called my friend to make him aware of the comment, and he promptly deleted it, as well as removed the video entirely. I told him he didn't have to remove the video, but he said the girl was calling his parents and constantly harassing them so he wanted to get it over with so he wouldn't have to deal with her.
Now she is trying to sue him for defamation, saying that he slandered her name. He is very upset as he's a college student and can't afford to spend thousands of dollars on a lawyer to defend himself against a crime he didn't commit. I feel that she has no case for the following reasons:
- He never mentioned her name or gave any information about her whatsoever. He only used the phrase "my ex girlfriend" in the video, thus it could be any of the girls he has dated in his entire life.
- He didn't leave the comment with her personal information. Someone else (whom neither of us know) left it.
- He removed the comment with the personal info as soon as he became aware of it. He even removed the entire video just to make sure no one else left similar comments.
- On top of all that, she has no way of proving that the story about her (that she cheated on him) is false. And he had no intention of causing her harm when he simply posted a video of him playing video games and telling the story.
My question here is are my points valid? Does she have a case, or is she just being silly? Also, do I have any liability in this (I didn't know the girl, my friend was the only one talking in the video, but we posted it to my YouTube channel)?
I have a YouTube channel where I post funny video game clips for fun. A few weeks ago I posted a game of my friend and I playing Call of Duty (we have permission to post it, that isn't the issue here) and him talking about his ex girlfriend. He's careful to never say her name or give away any personal information about her whatsoever, and the gist of the story is that she cheated on him, etc. She saw the video and filed a privacy violation complaint with YouTube and they denied it due to the fact that he/I never mentioned her name, and he could have been talking about any of the 5-6 ex girlfriends he has had.
Then someone at her school discovered the video and left a comment with her name and phone # (my friend and I were not aware of the comment, as there were hundreds of comments from general gaming fans on YouTube and it would have been impossible to read all of them). The girl called the police and they called my friend to make him aware of the comment, and he promptly deleted it, as well as removed the video entirely. I told him he didn't have to remove the video, but he said the girl was calling his parents and constantly harassing them so he wanted to get it over with so he wouldn't have to deal with her.
Now she is trying to sue him for defamation, saying that he slandered her name. He is very upset as he's a college student and can't afford to spend thousands of dollars on a lawyer to defend himself against a crime he didn't commit. I feel that she has no case for the following reasons:
- He never mentioned her name or gave any information about her whatsoever. He only used the phrase "my ex girlfriend" in the video, thus it could be any of the girls he has dated in his entire life.
- He didn't leave the comment with her personal information. Someone else (whom neither of us know) left it.
- He removed the comment with the personal info as soon as he became aware of it. He even removed the entire video just to make sure no one else left similar comments.
- On top of all that, she has no way of proving that the story about her (that she cheated on him) is false. And he had no intention of causing her harm when he simply posted a video of him playing video games and telling the story.
My question here is are my points valid? Does she have a case, or is she just being silly? Also, do I have any liability in this (I didn't know the girl, my friend was the only one talking in the video, but we posted it to my YouTube channel)?