How do we reconcile a question of:
Can the same person be a Grantor and Trustee in an irrevocable trust?
and the fact of:
The irrevocable trust was not previously revocable. It is the legacy of a step-dad, the grantor, to a step-son, the beneficiary, and myself in the middle as trustee.
Oh well, it is of no matter. What screams for attention:
but the beneficiary wishes to move cash into real estate for better returns. I have found some good opportunities, but the idea of the trust being on the title of property makes me nervous. The real estate investment involves the purchasing of property and the management of tenants, and I see a lot of risk and liability in that as compared to stocks and bonds.
Let me get this straight. The OP, as fiduciary, is contemplating an investment where he sees "a lot of risk and liability" because "the beneficiary wishes to move cash into real estate for better returns".
Smartest beneficiary ever.
The trust was set up so the beneficiary did not control the assets the grantor wanted to give. I don't know, maybe the grantor thought the beneficiary always took the whole piece rather than what is prudent or something and the grantor wanted to make sure the beneficiary had an easier life overall rather than a spectacular life which burned through all the money in a year. But, for whatever reason, the beneficiary was not given the money directly.
Since beneficiary consent is not required for action, his permission is meaningless. The cool thing is, if the investment gains, he benefits. If the investment loses, he sues the OP and benefits. Sue the OP? How so?
Well, WHY does the trust need to make this investment? What trust purpose is accomplished?
Making risky investments is going to bite the OP in the nether regions. Follow the trust and the goals of that trust, not some beneficiary who wants more.