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joyfulgirl71
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What is the name of your state? Tennessee
I am writing this for my boyfriend in the hopes of getting to talk to someone who's been through something similar or some advice. About three weeks ago on a Wed evening, my boyfriend slipped on a chunk of ice in the freezer he works in (he picks up boxes in a freezer) and fell directly on his back. He requested an ambulance which came and took him to the ER. At the ER, the Dr. told him to take 2 steps to the door, which he did and was in obvious pain. The Dr. also took X-rays, but said they looked fine. The Dr. said he was to follow up with another Dr. in the morning and gave him some pain medication. The next day, he talked with his work and the advisor made a follow up appt. that day (Thurs), he went to it and the Dr. asked him to press down on his head with his hands. Dr. said he was fine and told him to go back to work that day on light duty. By this time, work had already started and he had taken his pain meds about an hour before. He went to work and stated that he was on pain medication and work told him he couldn't even do light duty on pain meds and asked why he took them if he knew he wasn't supposed to take them at work. He stated that the advisor was not a Dr. nor was his supervisor. He stated that the Dr. told him to take the meds and thats what he was doing. He was told to go home and call his advisor in the morning. OIn Friday morning, his advisor made another follow up appt. along with a physical therapy appt for Monday.
On Monday he went to a physical therapist and another Dr., who asked him to touch his toes. Again, the Dr. said he was fine to go back to work, but stated he wasn't really sure and refered him to an orthopedic specialist. He went the next day, got his records from the Dr. and proceeded to go to the specialist. However, there was a truck fire, so he ended up being a few minutes late to the appt and they told him that his case worker waited for him and decided to leave and they wouldn't see him without a caseworker....they didn't even tell him a caseworker would be accompanying him to the appt. That afternoon, he went to see a lawyer who stated that he needed to reschedule the ortho appt then talk to him after he sees that Dr.
The next day (Wed), his work called and stated that they were cancelling his w/c because of non-compliance because he was late to the appt.
This is where we are at. My boyfriend has injured his lower back to the point where if he is not constantly moving, he is in pain. No pain killer works very well on his pain, and no matter how he tries to explain the pain to the company Dr.'s, they all say he is fine - one even said to him that he needed to grow up and realize that he was going to have to work for a living.
He cannot go back to work, even on light duty because this means standing at a desk where there is no back support or they might give him a milkcrate. They refuse to pay short term disability because he has refused light duty. Well, we are the point where he will be forced to go back to work tomorrow due to money constraints.
I am calling our own Dr. tomorrow so that we can find out what has happened to his back. He is 28 years old and too young to walk like he is 80 because he is in so much pain. However, we are still at a loss as to how to go about proceeding with work. Due to money, he is forced to go back to work tomorrow, but we both feel as though his work should be held responsible. They even sent us an ambulance bill. Any help please???????????
I am writing this for my boyfriend in the hopes of getting to talk to someone who's been through something similar or some advice. About three weeks ago on a Wed evening, my boyfriend slipped on a chunk of ice in the freezer he works in (he picks up boxes in a freezer) and fell directly on his back. He requested an ambulance which came and took him to the ER. At the ER, the Dr. told him to take 2 steps to the door, which he did and was in obvious pain. The Dr. also took X-rays, but said they looked fine. The Dr. said he was to follow up with another Dr. in the morning and gave him some pain medication. The next day, he talked with his work and the advisor made a follow up appt. that day (Thurs), he went to it and the Dr. asked him to press down on his head with his hands. Dr. said he was fine and told him to go back to work that day on light duty. By this time, work had already started and he had taken his pain meds about an hour before. He went to work and stated that he was on pain medication and work told him he couldn't even do light duty on pain meds and asked why he took them if he knew he wasn't supposed to take them at work. He stated that the advisor was not a Dr. nor was his supervisor. He stated that the Dr. told him to take the meds and thats what he was doing. He was told to go home and call his advisor in the morning. OIn Friday morning, his advisor made another follow up appt. along with a physical therapy appt for Monday.
On Monday he went to a physical therapist and another Dr., who asked him to touch his toes. Again, the Dr. said he was fine to go back to work, but stated he wasn't really sure and refered him to an orthopedic specialist. He went the next day, got his records from the Dr. and proceeded to go to the specialist. However, there was a truck fire, so he ended up being a few minutes late to the appt and they told him that his case worker waited for him and decided to leave and they wouldn't see him without a caseworker....they didn't even tell him a caseworker would be accompanying him to the appt. That afternoon, he went to see a lawyer who stated that he needed to reschedule the ortho appt then talk to him after he sees that Dr.
The next day (Wed), his work called and stated that they were cancelling his w/c because of non-compliance because he was late to the appt.
This is where we are at. My boyfriend has injured his lower back to the point where if he is not constantly moving, he is in pain. No pain killer works very well on his pain, and no matter how he tries to explain the pain to the company Dr.'s, they all say he is fine - one even said to him that he needed to grow up and realize that he was going to have to work for a living.
He cannot go back to work, even on light duty because this means standing at a desk where there is no back support or they might give him a milkcrate. They refuse to pay short term disability because he has refused light duty. Well, we are the point where he will be forced to go back to work tomorrow due to money constraints.
I am calling our own Dr. tomorrow so that we can find out what has happened to his back. He is 28 years old and too young to walk like he is 80 because he is in so much pain. However, we are still at a loss as to how to go about proceeding with work. Due to money, he is forced to go back to work tomorrow, but we both feel as though his work should be held responsible. They even sent us an ambulance bill. Any help please???????????