What is the name of your state? New Jersey
I got married in December of 1993, had two children with my Husband. In 2004 we separated and my Husband and his GF at that time went a got a quicky divorce, her mother did the paperwork - I got no support from him at all - sadly, we got back together and married in 2006 and still married as of now - but this is a man that loves to be center attraction of women, he has been caught multiple times with his online affairs. Bottom line, he decided he is moving out and feels I deserve absolutely nothing. I left a career when we got married, he claimed he would take care of everything. I cashed in my 401K to help him with an attorney as he had 2 previous children with his ex-girlfriend. He has gone through many jobs and fired from some - at one point, we were in back rent and all, so I cashed out my pension to pay for all owed. Now, he wanted us to have a better vehicle and since at the time of purchase my credit was better than his, I signed for loan, a loan didn't want but have - he makes double the amount I do and provides the health insurance, since my job is very small, and he knew I had medical issues. We are also in a situation where we reside now, the landlord wants us out and I can't afford to find another place on my own. My Husband said originally, he would try to help a little but since we can't communicate, he told me to look elsewhere -
Am i entitled to anything from him at all? and if so, can he just walk out and leave me stuck with the rent and all of which I don't even make enough to cover even half righ now of what we are paying. I have never not worked, only had a handful of jobs with him but I also don't make what he does. Can i file for alimony or help before even a divorce is started? and how, just asking, are there ways to even do all this with barely a dime to pay for lawyers? Appreciate any kind of advice - thank you.
I got married in December of 1993, had two children with my Husband. In 2004 we separated and my Husband and his GF at that time went a got a quicky divorce, her mother did the paperwork - I got no support from him at all - sadly, we got back together and married in 2006 and still married as of now - but this is a man that loves to be center attraction of women, he has been caught multiple times with his online affairs. Bottom line, he decided he is moving out and feels I deserve absolutely nothing. I left a career when we got married, he claimed he would take care of everything. I cashed in my 401K to help him with an attorney as he had 2 previous children with his ex-girlfriend. He has gone through many jobs and fired from some - at one point, we were in back rent and all, so I cashed out my pension to pay for all owed. Now, he wanted us to have a better vehicle and since at the time of purchase my credit was better than his, I signed for loan, a loan didn't want but have - he makes double the amount I do and provides the health insurance, since my job is very small, and he knew I had medical issues. We are also in a situation where we reside now, the landlord wants us out and I can't afford to find another place on my own. My Husband said originally, he would try to help a little but since we can't communicate, he told me to look elsewhere -
Am i entitled to anything from him at all? and if so, can he just walk out and leave me stuck with the rent and all of which I don't even make enough to cover even half righ now of what we are paying. I have never not worked, only had a handful of jobs with him but I also don't make what he does. Can i file for alimony or help before even a divorce is started? and how, just asking, are there ways to even do all this with barely a dime to pay for lawyers? Appreciate any kind of advice - thank you.