Custody violations and coaching children

[Ohiogal]

I think that the situation is too much of an emergency for that. Do you honestly think that a judge is going to ding mom for getting the child counseling based on the circumstances? Particularly since CPS wants it too? The child has killed/been violent with animals and is now being violent with other children.

Then mom could have gotten the child into counseling MONTHS ago before CPS involvement and is only now using it as an excuse. THAT is my problem. She (mom) also wants to keep the child from dad.

 

[twopeas&apod]

Mom to dad: I'd like to put him in counseling for his violence issues. Dad to mom: No. Mom: Ok...


How is that addressing the violence issues? As was stated, mom could have gone back to court. Mom could have taken the kid to the ER for a psych eval. Mom could have put the kid in counseling and then dealt with it in court. Nope...it wasn't until her BF responded to the child's violence with violence and CPS DIRECTED her to put the child in to counseling that she actually did.

Stopping you RIGHT there. Two weeks prior I had him in the pediatricians office for the intial. I believe you are just out to push buttons. I already stated dad has continued to deny consent, which is required! Not only via the order, but with the mental health facility.
Secondly, please do give me the $3000 to start proceedings with a decent lawyer.

 

[Ohiogal]

Stopping you RIGHT there. Two weeks prior I had him in the pediatricians office for the intial. I believe you are just out to push buttons. I already stated dad has continued to deny consent, which is required! Not only via the order, but with the mental health facility.
Secondly, please do give me the $3000 to start proceedings with a decent lawyer.

You are full of excuses. Congrats. You want applause? How long has the child been in counseling? Has dad been involved? I note you have ignored my questions. I stand by what I have said.

 

[twopeas&apod]

You are full of excuses. Congrats. You want applause? How long has the child been in counseling? Has dad been involved? I note you have ignored my questions. I stand by what I have said.

Questions should more like "how long ago did this start?" 3 months ago"Has dad done anything?" ZERO. ZILCH."Will this court even hear it?" Not until it escalates enough.
Listen. You apparently live in Ohio. If you want to see the paperwork, texts, voicemails, etc I would be more than happy to supply the information. I've been fair from lazy about the problems. I have already been going back and forth to court fighting it, but unless they find dad will a needle hanging out of his arm or in jail- we are legally limited. Every place here requires both signatures and witnessed by the office being signed. The pediatricians can only go so far and have flat out told my ex that he needed a specialist. Dad agreed with the peditrician only to deny and/or ignore every request to take care of it. He still refuses to talk to the social worker because she agreed with me about it. This is a man that has an excuse for everything. Like last month when i had to take the oldest boy to the hospital because after picking them up, he (child) told me he fell out of a tree about 7 or so feet up. I asked dad why he didnt tell me and the only answer i got was "I just forgot". That is via text so he can't deny it

 

[stealth2]

Questions should more like "how long ago did this start?" 3 months ago"Has dad done anything?" ZERO. ZILCH."Will this court even hear it?" Not until it escalates enough.
Listen. You apparently live in Ohio. If you want to see the paperwork, texts, voicemails, etc I would be more than happy to supply the information. I've been fair from lazy about the problems. I have already been going back and forth to court fighting it, but unless they find dad will a needle hanging out of his arm or in jail- we are legally limited. Every place here requires both signatures and witnessed by the office being signed. The pediatricians can only go so far and have flat out told my ex that he needed a specialist. Dad agreed with the peditrician only to deny and/or ignore every request to take care of it. He still refuses to talk to the social worker because she agreed with me about it. This is a man that has an excuse for everything. Like last month when i had to take the oldest boy to the hospital because after picking them up, he (child) told me he fell out of a tree about 7 or so feet up. I asked dad why he didnt tell me and the only answer i got was "I just forgot". That is via text so he can't deny it

FYI, OG is also an attorney.

I'm still looking for a question in your posts...

 

[Ohiogal]

Questions should more like "how long ago did this start?" 3 months ago"Has dad done anything?" ZERO. ZILCH."Will this court even hear it?" Not until it escalates enough.
Listen. You apparently live in Ohio. If you want to see the paperwork, texts, voicemails, etc I would be more than happy to supply the information. I've been fair from lazy about the problems. I have already been going back and forth to court fighting it, but unless they find dad will a needle hanging out of his arm or in jail- we are legally limited. Every place here requires both signatures and witnessed by the office being signed. The pediatricians can only go so far and have flat out told my ex that he needed a specialist. Dad agreed with the peditrician only to deny and/or ignore every request to take care of it. He still refuses to talk to the social worker because she agreed with me about it. This is a man that has an excuse for everything. Like last month when i had to take the oldest boy to the hospital because after picking them up, he (child) told me he fell out of a tree about 7 or so feet up. I asked dad why he didnt tell me and the only answer i got was "I just forgot". That is via text so he can't deny it

I asked the questions I did for a reason. You didn't answer them. Therefore, you have made up your mind that this is all dad's fault and you are an innocent victim.

 

[Silverplum]

The arrogance is astounding: I can't remember the last time I saw such a post as that one!

rolleyes

 

[twopeas&apod]

New

5 year old came home with abrasions to his forehead and between his eyes. Both kids told us that their father's live-in sister (30 years old) THREW him into her mother's truck. He landed on the floor, on his head. Both stated she was mad at him for being goofy and that is why she threw him into the pickup. Grandmother said nothing, but was in the drivers seat during this. I was never told about it; not even a bogus "it was an accident" story. Nothing. It has been reported both to police and CPS. On top of that, they have records of me telling them about similar issues periodically over the last few years.

Case worker from CPS told me that my ex has not returned her calls in the last few weeks despite leaving messages. According to them, this can be seen as evidence of what I had already said about him not wanting to get help for the boy because all she was asking was him in the voicemails was to call back to consent to treatment.

He sent a text to me following one I sent him about the same boy getting in trouble for swinging his coat in class and talking. Other than that he has been behaving better in the last few weeks. His response to her note was: "Im starting to think maybe we should see about getting him a different teacher". The teacher has been teaching elementary kids, including special needs, for longer than we've both been alive and comes highly recommended.. and how is it that the teacher is at fault for a kid behaving badly not only in class, but at recess under the watch of other aides and teachers?

 

[Ohiogal]

5 year old came home with abrasions to his forehead and between his eyes. Both kids told us that their father's live-in sister (30 years old) THREW him into her mother's truck. He landed on the floor, on his head. Both stated she was mad at him for being goofy and that is why she threw him into the pickup. Grandmother said nothing, but was in the drivers seat during this. I was never told about it; not even a bogus "it was an accident" story. Nothing. It has been reported both to police and CPS. On top of that, they have records of me telling them about similar issues periodically over the last few years.

Case worker from CPS told me that my ex has not returned her calls in the last few weeks despite leaving messages. According to them, this can be seen as evidence of what I had already said about him not wanting to get help for the boy because all she was asking was him in the voicemails was to call back to consent to treatment.

He sent a text to me following one I sent him about the same boy getting in trouble for swinging his coat in class and talking. Other than that he has been behaving better in the last few weeks. His response to her note was: "Im starting to think maybe we should see about getting him a different teacher". The teacher has been teaching elementary kids, including special needs, for longer than we've both been alive and comes highly recommended.. and how is it that the teacher is at fault for a kid behaving badly not only in class, but at recess under the watch of other aides and teachers?

Why are you still here when you won't answer the questions that have been asked of you? WHY? You want to make yourself and the kids a victim. Dad is not to blame for what his SISTER did. File charges against his sister. And a five year old is NOT a competent witness.

 

[Silverplum]

Why are you still here when you won't answer the questions that have been asked of you? WHY? You want to make yourself and the kids a victim. Dad is not to blame for what his SISTER did. File charges against his sister. And a five year old is NOT a competent witness.

Poster made it clear in post 19 that she knows which questions should be asked.

 

[Ohiogal]

Poster made it clear in post 19 that she knows which questions should be asked.

Yeah -- so she also apparently knows the answers to everything and should just go pay someone. IMHO.

 

[CTU]

Poster made it clear in post 19 that she knows which questions should be asked.

Some things never change.

(Except us losing our much-beloved, deeply missed "like" button)

 

[Ohiogal]

Some things never change.

(Except us losing our much-beloved, deeply missed "like" button)

I've complained to everyone and even had a talk with Dad (the owner of this here site) and he said it would get fixed. Mom and dad have us grounded for some reason.

 

[stealth2]

OP - retain an attorney.

 

[CTU]

I've complained to everyone and even had a talk with Dad (the owner of this here site) and he said it would get fixed. Mom and dad have us grounded for some reason.

I just snorkled coffee everywhere.

You had me at "Mom & Dad".



BTT: OP needs an attorney. And perhaps some lessons in deportment.