concernedmommie
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Connecticut
My daughter's father has just been ordered to have overnight visits from Saturday at 10am to Sunday 5pm every other weekend granted he moves into his apartment in Connecticut. He claimed that he moved in today and that his wife's sister-in-law and two children will be staying with them during the month of August. My daughter's first scheduled overnight starts in August and apparently these other people will be "visiting" for over a month. They only have a two bedroom apartment and he father claims that our daughter will have her own room and that the sister-in-law and two kids will be sleeping in the living room. I am afraid to send my daughter on this visit because I do not know how many people will really be living or visiting there and I am not sure if she will be in her own room. And this is the first time that she has ever stayed with him, I do not think it's in her best interest nor do I think it's a good way to get her adjusted to staying with him and his wife that he barely knows, and now he is adding 3 other people to the stay. When I asked him about it he replied that he is allowed to have guests and that he has no say in the fact that his wife's sister-in-law and 2 children will be staying. I do not want to send our daughter because I am afraid this is not the best situation for her...what can I do? And what will happen if I do not send her?
My daughter's father has just been ordered to have overnight visits from Saturday at 10am to Sunday 5pm every other weekend granted he moves into his apartment in Connecticut. He claimed that he moved in today and that his wife's sister-in-law and two children will be staying with them during the month of August. My daughter's first scheduled overnight starts in August and apparently these other people will be "visiting" for over a month. They only have a two bedroom apartment and he father claims that our daughter will have her own room and that the sister-in-law and two kids will be sleeping in the living room. I am afraid to send my daughter on this visit because I do not know how many people will really be living or visiting there and I am not sure if she will be in her own room. And this is the first time that she has ever stayed with him, I do not think it's in her best interest nor do I think it's a good way to get her adjusted to staying with him and his wife that he barely knows, and now he is adding 3 other people to the stay. When I asked him about it he replied that he is allowed to have guests and that he has no say in the fact that his wife's sister-in-law and 2 children will be staying. I do not want to send our daughter because I am afraid this is not the best situation for her...what can I do? And what will happen if I do not send her?