herdoc2005
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? WA
First: I'm in the military stationed in Ft. Bragg NC, and going through court in Benton County, WA State.
I recently went to court over custody, and the whole point of going to court was to improve my daughter's life by makeing the mother accountable for her actions of frequently moving to include changing schools, moving in and out with men, very bad dental records etc.
In the end, of course, the court decided that thigns were not bad enough for long enough to change custody (understood, dont agree, but I understand it is hard to change primary custody)
ISSUE #1
I was made to pay for her lawyer fees based on the fact that she could not pay? Is this legal? Am I being lied to?
ISSUE #2
She was not held in contempt for:
moving without noticing me (becuase I didnt take her to court quick enough, even though I didnt know when she moved AND her lawyer kept pushing the court dates to the right)
or
Not paying for her part of plane tickets even though she agreed in emails and on the phone(that is explained in the divorce decree) (Becuase the custodian who flew with her did not travel straight there and back)
How is this justice? How can someone do what they want and get the backing of the court?
In the end, the child again is living with the mother who moved right back in with the boyfriend, and has been tardy to school (that is right down the street) countless times!
thanks for your help
First: I'm in the military stationed in Ft. Bragg NC, and going through court in Benton County, WA State.
I recently went to court over custody, and the whole point of going to court was to improve my daughter's life by makeing the mother accountable for her actions of frequently moving to include changing schools, moving in and out with men, very bad dental records etc.
In the end, of course, the court decided that thigns were not bad enough for long enough to change custody (understood, dont agree, but I understand it is hard to change primary custody)
ISSUE #1
I was made to pay for her lawyer fees based on the fact that she could not pay? Is this legal? Am I being lied to?
ISSUE #2
She was not held in contempt for:
moving without noticing me (becuase I didnt take her to court quick enough, even though I didnt know when she moved AND her lawyer kept pushing the court dates to the right)
or
Not paying for her part of plane tickets even though she agreed in emails and on the phone(that is explained in the divorce decree) (Becuase the custodian who flew with her did not travel straight there and back)
How is this justice? How can someone do what they want and get the backing of the court?
In the end, the child again is living with the mother who moved right back in with the boyfriend, and has been tardy to school (that is right down the street) countless times!
thanks for your help