Hi I live in Colorado and have just recently been put into a situation at which i must ask for advice on what the next step I should take is. 4 days ago i finally couldn't take it anymore and called my husbands mother and had her pick him up because we were at each others throats. She had told me that she was going to take him in to the hospital and have him evaluated (I had taken him to a real mental health facility weeks before where he had stayed for 4 days) I was happy that he would be getting help and that we would have peace at the house. But the next day a close friend of both my husband and i called me saying that apparently when my husband was checked into the hospital they gave him a urine analyses which came up hot for marijuana. And that based on that social services would be coming to check the home. When the social worker arrived she informed me that they were called because I smoke marijuana all day. (This is so far from true) So what really happened was his mother took him and got his old script filled (sever depression meds) an then she called social services spouting lies about me! The fact that my husband would allow his mother to do this has made it clear that i was not married to him but his mother and now i want a devoice! the problem is I am unemployed and have a son to think of. I can not let his father have unsupervised visits with my son I couldn't even allow it when he lived with us. And I am afraid if I do what the social worker is telling me and print up my divorce papers and take them down without any legal representation that my husband and his mother will have 50-50 custody. I can not allow this to happen to my son. I would hire a lawyer but I am unemployed and in school. I went to the Colorado financial aid building and they told me that they are booked up on divorce custody cases and told me to do it on my own. I am so scared for my sons future I don't know what to to. His father is unable to take care of himself much less his child and his mother is no help in getting help for his mental health issues. Please tell me what to do!