What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? I live in nc my ex wife and i signed a seperation agreement june of last year and it stated i would pay 700 a month plus 80 for sons insurance a month i have it taken directly out of my pay check into her bank account have not missed a payment she recently took me up for child support because i worked some ungauranteed overtime we had a huge tax bill and i was under another child support order and my ex quit work what do i do !