I don't have a child support or custody order in place for my older two children because they have no relationship with their father and until recently he was incarcerated. My current husband and I will be getting a divorce and he has no issue with paying support for the child we have together. Will the issue of the other children not receiving support be brought up in our divorce? I don't want to get child support from their father because I fear he may resort to violence if I do. I live in Virginia.