i have been divorced for several years i have two kids 14yo boy 13yo girl I live in Wisconsin my x lives in Illinois we are about 2 1/2 hours apart we have regular visitation...some depression issues mixed with the hormones of a 13 yo girl mixed with an overbearing control freak of a mother has my x and my daughter fighting like cats and dogs neither seems to be able to cope with the problems in a healthy manner. it all came to a head about 2 and half months ago when my x calls me and says come and get my daughter she cant deal with her I said fine we will need to go back to court she said ok....within 24 hours my daughter was in the children’s psych ward on suicide watch due to cutting the crap out of her arm and leg and threating suicide when I got down there my x was there we went in to see a counselor the conversation was all about my x when I asked if she wanted my to take my daughter she denied ever saying that I said wow ok not much I could do I told my daughter I loved her if she needed me call. Two weeks latter she was right back in there same reasons I asked why didn't she call she cried and said he mother wouldn't let her call or text me... other than listen there was still nothing I could do, now here we are again another 3 weeks latter and she did the same thing again "cutting" anyway she just got out of the ward again yesterday I went down and picked her up for regular visitation now she doesn't want to go home...there is a lot more to the story involving her mother but lets just keep it short and say she is not firing on all 8... what do I do ?