Outsideblitz45
Junior Member
I live in PA. I've been paying support to a women who has been playing me for years. I got mixed up with this girl about 17 years ago. This girl ended up having a child that is mine. She moved away many years ago and basically wanted me to have nothing to do with him other then for me to pay her support. Well recently I found out this girl hasn't done so well for herself over the years and ended up being a drug addicted loser. She's been in and out of jail for selling dugs among other things. Well I just found out that 4 years ago she allowed some lady to take him in as her own and raise him because she couldn't stay out of jail. God bless this lady she is a saint and my son is not the only kid she has taken in to raise as her own. This lady who has my son has never come after me for support. So this girl I had this child with has been collecting support for 4 years and hasn't had this kid at all some other lady has been raising him on her own good will. This girl.would call me for extra money all the time and I'd send whatever she needed for him. she wasn't giving him a dime just feeding her drug habits. All the birthday cards Xmas cards full of money he probably never seen a dime of it. Now I'm mad as hell she never wanted me to have anything to do with him because she said she wanted her boyfriend to raise him as their son to find out there was never a steady father figure in his life and she's taken me for ten of thousands of dollars. I'm still paying she has no clue yet I know and now I'm not sure what I should or could do. Any advice would be greatful. And yes there is a ton of proof this has happen.