What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Pennsylvania (non-Philadelphia). I was engaged to a woman for a period of 4 months at the end of a 2 year relationship, the 2nd year of which we lived together. I paid off her credit cards for 10000 dollars, renovated her home for 15000, and paid many other routine bills for her sole benefit. I was told all these expenditures on my part equated to "gifts" and I had no legal recourse to seek remuneration. Now I am trying to have returned an expensive appliance (which was intended as a gift) and a bedframe purchased as part of a new mattress set bought only in my name. I am about tired of this woman benefitting from me everytime I turn around, especially after considering her treatment of me in our end. So I'm bitter (admittedly) and want those and any other items I ever gave her returned. Do I have a leg to stand on? If I have no rights to the appliance or bedframe, why does she seem to? Can someone help me out here?