(FL)
My mom and I run an eldercare home with up to 6 residents, and we have often seen people coming out of hospitals and other nursing homes practically near death, then they move here and magically make a full rebound. I think the health care industry might be the problem, and now my dad is caught up in it. There was a problem with his heart, he has had a pacemaker for a year or two now and they recently had to operate again. Now he has ended up with congestive heart, fluid in the lungs, and is so doped up he can't get out a single word. His mind was functioning as good as ever a week ago, so I believe they are chemically restraining him, as well as physically. This isn't tearing me up inside like it might be for others in my family, but I worry they also might be idiots. An even bigger problem is I might suspect his wife to manipulate the situation, and I'm not sure how I can confront that. I just want to do the right thing. Any advice?
My mom and I run an eldercare home with up to 6 residents, and we have often seen people coming out of hospitals and other nursing homes practically near death, then they move here and magically make a full rebound. I think the health care industry might be the problem, and now my dad is caught up in it. There was a problem with his heart, he has had a pacemaker for a year or two now and they recently had to operate again. Now he has ended up with congestive heart, fluid in the lungs, and is so doped up he can't get out a single word. His mind was functioning as good as ever a week ago, so I believe they are chemically restraining him, as well as physically. This isn't tearing me up inside like it might be for others in my family, but I worry they also might be idiots. An even bigger problem is I might suspect his wife to manipulate the situation, and I'm not sure how I can confront that. I just want to do the right thing. Any advice?