hugs-n-kisses
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What is the name of your state? Pennsylvania
Ok, this is for a good friend of mine, unrelated to my other post...... Curtis and his girlfriend split up. They weren't married, but have been living together for 5+years... He worked on the road and she was cheating on him constantly... The have 2 kids- Madison just turned 5, and Jordan 2 will be 2 in a few weeks.. There is nothing drawn up saying who has custody, and they have a verbal agreement for CS, which Curtis keeps paying up to date, never late on payments. Becky doesnt let him see the kids much more than two days per month, and doesnt allow overnights. Since there is no agreement in place, does Curtis have to take them home, or can he keep them and have it drawn up that he has custody?
I also have to tell you that she has been going to rehab for over a year now, which was also paid for by Curtis while they were together. She has been addicted to pain medications for years now, and it isnt her first trip to rehab.. I remember when she was trying to get into rehab and was trying to get her hands on any, and i do mean ANY, drug she could get her hands on.. She said that to go to rehab she had to be "very dirty." Curtis hasnt done drugs since he was in high school. He stays clean.
He recently hired an attorney.. one of the best in our area, but his appt isnt for a few weeks to come.. I just wondered what all advice I can give him until he can get in to see her. Thank-you for all your help...
Ok, this is for a good friend of mine, unrelated to my other post...... Curtis and his girlfriend split up. They weren't married, but have been living together for 5+years... He worked on the road and she was cheating on him constantly... The have 2 kids- Madison just turned 5, and Jordan 2 will be 2 in a few weeks.. There is nothing drawn up saying who has custody, and they have a verbal agreement for CS, which Curtis keeps paying up to date, never late on payments. Becky doesnt let him see the kids much more than two days per month, and doesnt allow overnights. Since there is no agreement in place, does Curtis have to take them home, or can he keep them and have it drawn up that he has custody?
I also have to tell you that she has been going to rehab for over a year now, which was also paid for by Curtis while they were together. She has been addicted to pain medications for years now, and it isnt her first trip to rehab.. I remember when she was trying to get into rehab and was trying to get her hands on any, and i do mean ANY, drug she could get her hands on.. She said that to go to rehab she had to be "very dirty." Curtis hasnt done drugs since he was in high school. He stays clean.
He recently hired an attorney.. one of the best in our area, but his appt isnt for a few weeks to come.. I just wondered what all advice I can give him until he can get in to see her. Thank-you for all your help...