What is the name of your state? Hawaii
I am a single dad with two aweosme kids, my problem lies with there mother, we have been seperated for about 4 years now(never married, only b/f g/f kine) but ever since i have a new girl friend she has put child support on me,, im not grumbling about paying, those are my kids but i have to pay almost $900 a month when i take home just under $2000 a month, there mother is not working, for what reason i dont know,(just lazy) i guess she feels why work when i can just play and get paid right? look i buss my butt 40 hours a week in construction and am forced to work on the weekends just to make MY ends meet while there mother just goofs off and leeches off of me, and i might add that she doesnt even let me see my kids, since new years i have seen them about 5 times and those five times been only a few minutes, she always makes excuses about not the right time or there to busy, i have been paying child support since the begining of the year, but dont people like me have some kind oif rights here? i wasent even the one who fulled around, she was and because of that i have to pay for that??? F@#k that! like i said before i am in no way trying to get out of paying support, but that much?? and she no need work??? i know it doesnt take that much EVERY month to raise two kids, how? i used to raise them before all this happend, what is she doing with the rest of the money not used? i know she never start a savings or something, she spending my hard earned money that supposed to go to the kids on herself and her b/f libing with them, HELP!!!! i am so frustrated aloha...
I am a single dad with two aweosme kids, my problem lies with there mother, we have been seperated for about 4 years now(never married, only b/f g/f kine) but ever since i have a new girl friend she has put child support on me,, im not grumbling about paying, those are my kids but i have to pay almost $900 a month when i take home just under $2000 a month, there mother is not working, for what reason i dont know,(just lazy) i guess she feels why work when i can just play and get paid right? look i buss my butt 40 hours a week in construction and am forced to work on the weekends just to make MY ends meet while there mother just goofs off and leeches off of me, and i might add that she doesnt even let me see my kids, since new years i have seen them about 5 times and those five times been only a few minutes, she always makes excuses about not the right time or there to busy, i have been paying child support since the begining of the year, but dont people like me have some kind oif rights here? i wasent even the one who fulled around, she was and because of that i have to pay for that??? F@#k that! like i said before i am in no way trying to get out of paying support, but that much?? and she no need work??? i know it doesnt take that much EVERY month to raise two kids, how? i used to raise them before all this happend, what is she doing with the rest of the money not used? i know she never start a savings or something, she spending my hard earned money that supposed to go to the kids on herself and her b/f libing with them, HELP!!!! i am so frustrated aloha...