screwedspouse
Junior Member
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My wayward spouse wants a divorce to "find himself". I found him with the town whore. He is in the military. Military can relieve him of duty with charges of adultery (which he deserves) I understand that since we have been married for almost 30 years I get half of his pension. He tells me if I divorce him with the grounds of adultery that he gets nothing and I would get half of nothing. He is forging my name to documents and cashing in investments and making loans on join accounts without my permission. I have given him room to "find himself" but don't want to find myself without anything. I have given up my whole life to follow him around and raise our children.
1. Where do I begin to protect myself? I have given him the opportunity to dump the whore, which he did, but then she weasles herself back into his bed. Now I have an STD from them.
2. How do I get him to see that I get 1/2 of everything Plus I will file for spousal support for the years I followed him and put my career on hold.
3. Can I file for reimbursement during the divorce for the money he spent on her? The gifts he bought her on our credit cards? 1/2 of the investments he cashed in? It appears he is giving her $800 of our joint funds, can I go after 1/2?
4. Can I file for seperation to stop all of the money flow to the girlfriend?
Thank you!
My wayward spouse wants a divorce to "find himself". I found him with the town whore. He is in the military. Military can relieve him of duty with charges of adultery (which he deserves) I understand that since we have been married for almost 30 years I get half of his pension. He tells me if I divorce him with the grounds of adultery that he gets nothing and I would get half of nothing. He is forging my name to documents and cashing in investments and making loans on join accounts without my permission. I have given him room to "find himself" but don't want to find myself without anything. I have given up my whole life to follow him around and raise our children.
1. Where do I begin to protect myself? I have given him the opportunity to dump the whore, which he did, but then she weasles herself back into his bed. Now I have an STD from them.
2. How do I get him to see that I get 1/2 of everything Plus I will file for spousal support for the years I followed him and put my career on hold.
3. Can I file for reimbursement during the divorce for the money he spent on her? The gifts he bought her on our credit cards? 1/2 of the investments he cashed in? It appears he is giving her $800 of our joint funds, can I go after 1/2?
4. Can I file for seperation to stop all of the money flow to the girlfriend?
Thank you!