What is the name of your state? minnesota
Ok everyone – I am going to file a motion and I would greatly appreciate your input. The motion is for the following:
1. all medical/dental etc to be paid directly to hospital/clinic/etc – not to cp. Bills to me within 30 days of her receipt – or she pays fully. Has to take child to preferred provider or she will be responsible for full amount.
2. once she is no longer receiving daycare assistance – my portion of daycare to be paid directly to daycare provider after receiving proof that child actually attended (not sure if I can actually do this since I don’t live in the same town and wouldn’t be able to go to provider directly to pay – maybe she pays her part and then after I pay – child care can reimburse her?)
3. I want to be able to claim child as exemption every other year
4. I want her to return the old medical card that is no longer valid (insurance is through my wife’s employer and old card has her ss# on it – new card has random number – I sent her a letter asking for it back and stated *"If you fail to do so, further action may be taken”* – she’s trying to say the letter was threatening – it was 3 lines and the ‘threatening part’ was exactly what I have in quotes above) -- she has major c.c. debt and is likely to file bankruptcy – don’t want her ruining my wife’s credit when she can’t get her own credit cards anymore.
I think that is everything I want to do. I was wondering if anyone has any specific wording in their decree’s that would be helpful to me or even had any suggestions of things to include in here. I want to be as specific as possible so I don’t get screwed over. As for number 4 – should I even do this? She’s nuts and would do anything but the fact that she can just copy the ss# down makes me wonder if I should even do it. however, I don’t want her to just leave the card wherever and let god knows who to get a hold of it. but then again she could just write the number down and leave that wherever too. We are having a hearing in march anyways so I thought I would just add it in there since she made a copy of the letter and sent it into the cs officer with her stuff to submit for daycare expenses and claimed she was threatened (cs officer knows she’s nuts plus the letter was in no way threatening – I specifically worded the way I did so I could take action if I wanted to but didn’t say I was for sure going to) I wouldn’t waste the courts time with it normally but since we’re going for everything else thought I’d add it. any thoughts? Thanks!
Ok everyone – I am going to file a motion and I would greatly appreciate your input. The motion is for the following:
1. all medical/dental etc to be paid directly to hospital/clinic/etc – not to cp. Bills to me within 30 days of her receipt – or she pays fully. Has to take child to preferred provider or she will be responsible for full amount.
2. once she is no longer receiving daycare assistance – my portion of daycare to be paid directly to daycare provider after receiving proof that child actually attended (not sure if I can actually do this since I don’t live in the same town and wouldn’t be able to go to provider directly to pay – maybe she pays her part and then after I pay – child care can reimburse her?)
3. I want to be able to claim child as exemption every other year
4. I want her to return the old medical card that is no longer valid (insurance is through my wife’s employer and old card has her ss# on it – new card has random number – I sent her a letter asking for it back and stated *"If you fail to do so, further action may be taken”* – she’s trying to say the letter was threatening – it was 3 lines and the ‘threatening part’ was exactly what I have in quotes above) -- she has major c.c. debt and is likely to file bankruptcy – don’t want her ruining my wife’s credit when she can’t get her own credit cards anymore.
I think that is everything I want to do. I was wondering if anyone has any specific wording in their decree’s that would be helpful to me or even had any suggestions of things to include in here. I want to be as specific as possible so I don’t get screwed over. As for number 4 – should I even do this? She’s nuts and would do anything but the fact that she can just copy the ss# down makes me wonder if I should even do it. however, I don’t want her to just leave the card wherever and let god knows who to get a hold of it. but then again she could just write the number down and leave that wherever too. We are having a hearing in march anyways so I thought I would just add it in there since she made a copy of the letter and sent it into the cs officer with her stuff to submit for daycare expenses and claimed she was threatened (cs officer knows she’s nuts plus the letter was in no way threatening – I specifically worded the way I did so I could take action if I wanted to but didn’t say I was for sure going to) I wouldn’t waste the courts time with it normally but since we’re going for everything else thought I’d add it. any thoughts? Thanks!
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