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Xfiles and i have a 50-50 schedule, we are both entitled to 30 days vacation, I took mine in Dec 2007 and went to asia with our 4 yr old, xfiles is taking his in Jan 2008, staying in town. This is the first time DD is spending this much time away from me. I explained to her that she had a lot of fun and time with me in asia and now she will have the same kind of fun and alone time with Dad in town.
When I call to talk to her, she is very upset with me, mad at me, and is angry at me for "sending her to Dad's". All I say to her is that I love her and keep the conversation positive and upbeat asking about what she did in preschool etc. In other words, I do not indulge in any explanations about why she is there at Dad's etc.
I am worried about the way she is feeling? I think the best approach is to keep the conversations light and positive. This is only day 5 and she has 25 days more to go. Am I doing the right thing here? For those of you who have had this experience, are there any long term consequences of her behavior or is it all perfectly normal?
Xfiles and i have a 50-50 schedule, we are both entitled to 30 days vacation, I took mine in Dec 2007 and went to asia with our 4 yr old, xfiles is taking his in Jan 2008, staying in town. This is the first time DD is spending this much time away from me. I explained to her that she had a lot of fun and time with me in asia and now she will have the same kind of fun and alone time with Dad in town.
When I call to talk to her, she is very upset with me, mad at me, and is angry at me for "sending her to Dad's". All I say to her is that I love her and keep the conversation positive and upbeat asking about what she did in preschool etc. In other words, I do not indulge in any explanations about why she is there at Dad's etc.
I am worried about the way she is feeling? I think the best approach is to keep the conversations light and positive. This is only day 5 and she has 25 days more to go. Am I doing the right thing here? For those of you who have had this experience, are there any long term consequences of her behavior or is it all perfectly normal?