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karlyn
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What is the name of your state? Maryland
I have been married 20 yrs. 2 daughters, 14 & 16. My husband & i just do not get along!!~ I've told him I want a divorce a # of times during the past 14 yrs..... He threatened me with a custody battle (never used this as a threat myself) I did NOT want our girls caught in the middle so i stayed in the marriage....
I intercepted an e-mail a week ago from a woman to my husband - they knew each other 29 yrs. ago and she looked him up.... Seems he's been e-mailing her back and unloading all our personal problems to her. The e-mail she sent was highly suggestive since she asked him if they could keep their "horney" hands off eachother if they got together....
I was so angry - I confronted husbd. and asked him to move out to his mom's(she lives 2 mi's away) I didn't know what I did might not be legal. He did not have a sexual encounter with "old girlfriend" that I am aware however, he was contemplating it. I can't handle the idea of living together while we go through divorce procedings. We just met with a mediator today.
Haven't spoken to an attorney yet due to finances. I don't want to keep kids away from husband - I just don't want to live with him!! I just finished 8 mo's of chemo- type therapy for a newly diagnosed illness - I'm not sure yet how my future health will be affected. I work part-time and plan to stay employed! I want to stay in our jointly owned home with daughters until divorce procedings are final.
*I want to do what is LEAST destructive ffor my kids and LEAST draining on our finances.....
Need some advice.
I have been married 20 yrs. 2 daughters, 14 & 16. My husband & i just do not get along!!~ I've told him I want a divorce a # of times during the past 14 yrs..... He threatened me with a custody battle (never used this as a threat myself) I did NOT want our girls caught in the middle so i stayed in the marriage....
I intercepted an e-mail a week ago from a woman to my husband - they knew each other 29 yrs. ago and she looked him up.... Seems he's been e-mailing her back and unloading all our personal problems to her. The e-mail she sent was highly suggestive since she asked him if they could keep their "horney" hands off eachother if they got together....
I was so angry - I confronted husbd. and asked him to move out to his mom's(she lives 2 mi's away) I didn't know what I did might not be legal. He did not have a sexual encounter with "old girlfriend" that I am aware however, he was contemplating it. I can't handle the idea of living together while we go through divorce procedings. We just met with a mediator today.
Haven't spoken to an attorney yet due to finances. I don't want to keep kids away from husband - I just don't want to live with him!! I just finished 8 mo's of chemo- type therapy for a newly diagnosed illness - I'm not sure yet how my future health will be affected. I work part-time and plan to stay employed! I want to stay in our jointly owned home with daughters until divorce procedings are final.
*I want to do what is LEAST destructive ffor my kids and LEAST draining on our finances.....
Need some advice.