What is the name of your state? FL
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I would like to offer the X my assistance with our children. As it stands, she works from 3 pm to 1 am. She is trying to care for 3 children and an infant, while working full time night shift. She's forking out a large sum of money every week to pay for the overnight childcare, and the children only get to see her on the trip from the daycare to school in the mornings, excluding her 2 days off a week (Thursday & Friday)
I would like to offer to take temporary custody of the children so as to provide the children with a full time parent, and a stable household. She and I are allowed telephone contact as long as it pertains to the children, so I am seriously considering calling her and running this past her to see what her thoughts on it are. She's been very mature and reasonable lately, and I'm hoping that she will at least consider the offer.
The terms I'd like to present to her are as follows:
1. Temporary custody beginning as soon as possible until the end of this school year.
2. Open visitation and access to the children in her free time.
3. I request no child support, only that my financial obligation for support be suspended until such time as she is ready and able to take the children back.
Is this something that can be done without a hearing if we draw up a contract and both sign it before a notary at the courthouse?
My intent is to take the children out of the constant 'third party care' and give them the time & attention that they need. They want to be here, but I know that until their are in their teens their opinion doesn't count for much in the eyes of the court. I am going about this differently that previously done when I petitioned the court for custody. This is being done out of love for my children, and I am remaining respectful and sympathetic to her situation.
Thoughts or suggestions?
((read back story))
I would like to offer the X my assistance with our children. As it stands, she works from 3 pm to 1 am. She is trying to care for 3 children and an infant, while working full time night shift. She's forking out a large sum of money every week to pay for the overnight childcare, and the children only get to see her on the trip from the daycare to school in the mornings, excluding her 2 days off a week (Thursday & Friday)
I would like to offer to take temporary custody of the children so as to provide the children with a full time parent, and a stable household. She and I are allowed telephone contact as long as it pertains to the children, so I am seriously considering calling her and running this past her to see what her thoughts on it are. She's been very mature and reasonable lately, and I'm hoping that she will at least consider the offer.
The terms I'd like to present to her are as follows:
1. Temporary custody beginning as soon as possible until the end of this school year.
2. Open visitation and access to the children in her free time.
3. I request no child support, only that my financial obligation for support be suspended until such time as she is ready and able to take the children back.
Is this something that can be done without a hearing if we draw up a contract and both sign it before a notary at the courthouse?
My intent is to take the children out of the constant 'third party care' and give them the time & attention that they need. They want to be here, but I know that until their are in their teens their opinion doesn't count for much in the eyes of the court. I am going about this differently that previously done when I petitioned the court for custody. This is being done out of love for my children, and I am remaining respectful and sympathetic to her situation.
Thoughts or suggestions?