What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Washington State
ok so i have posted a couple times on this website before and have gotten some good responses/ideas but i have another question so here it goes. i will give a small timeline of whats happened to help get the best replies.
11/15/09 Ex gf and our 3 1/2 month old baby daughter move out of our apt
11/19/09 Ex g/f files civil protection order DV
12/1/09 we go to court for protection order and i am given 2 days per week supervised visits at a local center here in town that does anger management classes etc and also does supervised visits. I am also ordered by court to take anger management classes wich are 8 weeks long and judge will see us in 8 weeks for review hearing.
1/26/10 we go to court for review hearing and ex asks for 1 day per week supervised for 1 hour at same supervision place but judge says thats not enough time for my visits and grants me 2 days per week at my mothers house supervised for 1 hr each visit for feb and then starting march 1st they go to 2 hours per visit 2 hours per day.
2/15/10 When mother brings our daughter down for my visit she states that she wont be making wednesday's visit 2/17/10 due to she has a very busy week and her new b/f will be watching baby that day instead and he wont bring her down. When asked about makeup visit for later that week she said she was to busy and maybe she would make it up the next week.
The next week she failed to make up the previous weeks visit.
2/24/10 When mother brings baby down for my visit she mentions she wont be making 3/1/10's visit (My 1st scheduled 2 hr visit) cause she is going out of town but mentions she will be there for the 3/3/10 visit and will make it work to make up that visit later in the week. she asked my mother on 3/3/10 (Wednesday) when dropped baby off for visit what day I wanted to make up the missed day and she would make it work. my mother stated thursday or friday would work for me but had to be in the evening since i worked untill 4:30 pm so she told my mother that was fine she would make it work and stated she would call my mom to let her know what day she would bring her down for makeup visit.
She failed to call my mother and failed to pick up phone when my mother called her so she never made up that visit.
So now she is 2 visits behind and fails to make them up.
3/8/10 I went to see a lawyer paid $50 cosultation fee for 30 minutes and explained everything above to her. She told me that if the mom fails to make up either visit this week then it was a no brainer i needed to file for contempt against the mom since its now becoming a pattern for missed visits.
Any advice on what you guys/gals think i should do?
Also the Lawyer said that i needed to get a parenting plan started and that she said it shouldnt be a problem for me to get Thursday - Monday visits maybe as soon as August wich is when our daughter turns 1.
Any advice appreciated
ok so i have posted a couple times on this website before and have gotten some good responses/ideas but i have another question so here it goes. i will give a small timeline of whats happened to help get the best replies.
11/15/09 Ex gf and our 3 1/2 month old baby daughter move out of our apt
11/19/09 Ex g/f files civil protection order DV
12/1/09 we go to court for protection order and i am given 2 days per week supervised visits at a local center here in town that does anger management classes etc and also does supervised visits. I am also ordered by court to take anger management classes wich are 8 weeks long and judge will see us in 8 weeks for review hearing.
1/26/10 we go to court for review hearing and ex asks for 1 day per week supervised for 1 hour at same supervision place but judge says thats not enough time for my visits and grants me 2 days per week at my mothers house supervised for 1 hr each visit for feb and then starting march 1st they go to 2 hours per visit 2 hours per day.
2/15/10 When mother brings our daughter down for my visit she states that she wont be making wednesday's visit 2/17/10 due to she has a very busy week and her new b/f will be watching baby that day instead and he wont bring her down. When asked about makeup visit for later that week she said she was to busy and maybe she would make it up the next week.
The next week she failed to make up the previous weeks visit.
2/24/10 When mother brings baby down for my visit she mentions she wont be making 3/1/10's visit (My 1st scheduled 2 hr visit) cause she is going out of town but mentions she will be there for the 3/3/10 visit and will make it work to make up that visit later in the week. she asked my mother on 3/3/10 (Wednesday) when dropped baby off for visit what day I wanted to make up the missed day and she would make it work. my mother stated thursday or friday would work for me but had to be in the evening since i worked untill 4:30 pm so she told my mother that was fine she would make it work and stated she would call my mom to let her know what day she would bring her down for makeup visit.
She failed to call my mother and failed to pick up phone when my mother called her so she never made up that visit.
So now she is 2 visits behind and fails to make them up.
3/8/10 I went to see a lawyer paid $50 cosultation fee for 30 minutes and explained everything above to her. She told me that if the mom fails to make up either visit this week then it was a no brainer i needed to file for contempt against the mom since its now becoming a pattern for missed visits.
Any advice on what you guys/gals think i should do?
Also the Lawyer said that i needed to get a parenting plan started and that she said it shouldnt be a problem for me to get Thursday - Monday visits maybe as soon as August wich is when our daughter turns 1.
Any advice appreciated
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