Not necessarily. IF there is a restraining order then he has violated it by having third parties call. And if he has been told not to call her by the police or legal action would be taken, then he is still harrassing her.
To answer one queston: the email said specifically to call be bc he couldn't call and to plz find out if i'd had an abortion or not bc if I hadn't we would be going through a custody battle for the baby.
The next question: No I haven't been the one answering the phone calls...yesterday when the phone call came I wasn't home and my dad answered the phone...these people don't like my dad but I did tell him that you guys said that next time they call he needs to tell them NOT to call back.
Now to OG's question: Yes the police did call him and another girl whom he was friends with (and I was friends with her at one point...tho why i don't know) to STOP calling my parents, otherwise they could be arressted for harrassment.
the first day I found out I was pregnant and told my parents, of course they were a little upset but would never do anything to hurt me.
that night (this is why the police told them to stop calling) my parents took the phone off the hook because my X and this girl kept calling and calling....eventually the law shows up and apparently this girl has made not one but two calls saying she thinks my father has kicked me in the stomach and is holding me against my will.
Two officers came out, I assured them I was fine and this was not true and one officer said he would phone both her and my X and let them know if the calls were made again, charges would be filed.
This happened a few months ago, but my parents have been adamant about them not calling.
I didn't know if this story helped but i thought it may give you some more information to go on.