VirginiaSlim
Junior Member
My husband , who is an O-4, had an affair while TDY last year. The woman contacted me a month after it ended saying she was pregnant. He admitted to the affair when confronted. She continued to harass him and me until he finally had to have his number changed. I am not sure what her motive was but she sent an email to IG and an Article 134 investigation was started. She has since contacted me saying she was sorry and she knew he was married. My question, it has been almost 90 days since the investigation started, not surprisingly my husband and I are not doing so well. He said the investigation was complete he was just waiting to hear the punishment. I believe he has already been told but isn't telling me. Is there anyway I can find out? Am I allowed to call his commander and ask? I have stayed completely out of the entire investigation, as far as the army knows, I know nothing of the affair. I am also a civilian with four kids to think about. Any information would be greatly appreciated