Dadx2kids4n8
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What is the name of your state? The name of my state is California
Or to be exact, the state of confusion! I am again being plastered with yet another new twist in this saga of stupidity and selfish intent that I am now beside myself with embarrassment. My soon to be exwife, whom is now acknowledging my impending filing of divorce and retaining custody of my kids including my step-son who was not mentioned on my last post, has yet another complexity to add to this dilemma. So, knowing that I stand on firm footing and she has given me no choice(she's not supposed to be here-we were sparated-she got kicked out and I let her stay temp with a date to leave & has repeated it twice-we don't have prioties alike) because of the constant unhappiness she is spreading under this roof by making false comments and out right lies that could be taken as well worded exaggerations that seem too unlikely knowing the history of us both as parents to these 3 boys ages 15-8-4 is now telling me that I have no legal recourse to retain my step-son. Even when I report that it's in all their best interest to stay in this home with me and continue their education/life without fear of be pulled up and made to start over as in the past that has now gotten them known for this in school system and their education is showing it now and I am in constant contact with my 8 year olds teacher and principal on the matter to offset retaining him in the 3rd grade and my 15 year olds report cards his freshman year have given him the same forecast-she plans to leave me and take only him-possibly because of the child support stopped in light of my need since her untimely departure from our home, for help on childcare and living assistance through the state since my unemployment ins. ran out. And as I had forewarned long ago that she should find work and not count on that to sustain her livelyhood, it's now become fact in my asking for state assistance and my boys residing with me-they have taken away the support and sent it to the Social Services depart. And this is my fault-so now she had plans to uproot him inspite of the fact that he and I have talked regarding issues of concern that if I have done anything he could deem harmful to his well being from his 2nd b-day to his 15th b-day, and my son indicating without hesitation mind you, that nothing was done to him. She is the one who has an ax to grind and intends on using my son in this manner against me to emotionally cripple me-not withstanding the fact that his brothers love, need, and will not adjust to life without him-knowing this-she rests her virtuous reasonings as being a mother entitles her to do this to us all. I ask you will/does the court concur with her on the state of all rights belong to only her as I am only a STEP-father? Please enlighten me on this because this in my open and experiencing eyes its the most wrong that can happen by virtue of the title as his mother to not let a step-father have say in the best interest of his son. Whom he loved with just as much heart and soul before his brothers birth but neverloving anyone less than because they are my SONS. I know it's a long statement-but this people is one f-uped thing to throw out now and has me downed beyond anything I've felt-EVER! ASAP wud be the word & appreciated by anyone with legal knowledge please. Thanks
Or to be exact, the state of confusion! I am again being plastered with yet another new twist in this saga of stupidity and selfish intent that I am now beside myself with embarrassment. My soon to be exwife, whom is now acknowledging my impending filing of divorce and retaining custody of my kids including my step-son who was not mentioned on my last post, has yet another complexity to add to this dilemma. So, knowing that I stand on firm footing and she has given me no choice(she's not supposed to be here-we were sparated-she got kicked out and I let her stay temp with a date to leave & has repeated it twice-we don't have prioties alike) because of the constant unhappiness she is spreading under this roof by making false comments and out right lies that could be taken as well worded exaggerations that seem too unlikely knowing the history of us both as parents to these 3 boys ages 15-8-4 is now telling me that I have no legal recourse to retain my step-son. Even when I report that it's in all their best interest to stay in this home with me and continue their education/life without fear of be pulled up and made to start over as in the past that has now gotten them known for this in school system and their education is showing it now and I am in constant contact with my 8 year olds teacher and principal on the matter to offset retaining him in the 3rd grade and my 15 year olds report cards his freshman year have given him the same forecast-she plans to leave me and take only him-possibly because of the child support stopped in light of my need since her untimely departure from our home, for help on childcare and living assistance through the state since my unemployment ins. ran out. And as I had forewarned long ago that she should find work and not count on that to sustain her livelyhood, it's now become fact in my asking for state assistance and my boys residing with me-they have taken away the support and sent it to the Social Services depart. And this is my fault-so now she had plans to uproot him inspite of the fact that he and I have talked regarding issues of concern that if I have done anything he could deem harmful to his well being from his 2nd b-day to his 15th b-day, and my son indicating without hesitation mind you, that nothing was done to him. She is the one who has an ax to grind and intends on using my son in this manner against me to emotionally cripple me-not withstanding the fact that his brothers love, need, and will not adjust to life without him-knowing this-she rests her virtuous reasonings as being a mother entitles her to do this to us all. I ask you will/does the court concur with her on the state of all rights belong to only her as I am only a STEP-father? Please enlighten me on this because this in my open and experiencing eyes its the most wrong that can happen by virtue of the title as his mother to not let a step-father have say in the best interest of his son. Whom he loved with just as much heart and soul before his brothers birth but neverloving anyone less than because they are my SONS. I know it's a long statement-but this people is one f-uped thing to throw out now and has me downed beyond anything I've felt-EVER! ASAP wud be the word & appreciated by anyone with legal knowledge please. Thanks