Yeah, Quincy's idea is probably not realistic. I was looking at the $125,000 figure, however, and could see a few poor attorneys salivating.
Michigan's Friend of the Court system is a mess, and has been for several years, especially the Wayne County offices. There is serious talk in Lansing about privatizing the system. Computer glitches and extreme understaffing are only part of, what could be, a much wider problem. We have actually been investigating potential embezzlement and fraud within the system for awhile now. Child support is being collected, often through garnishment of wages (which is now required on any new support orders), but it is
not always being disbursed. Heads may eventually roll.
If stmfitr636 has an employment address for her ex-husband, having wages garnisheed, and tracking down a home address, should not be causing a problem. The wage garnishment order should not have been lifted, and I am really surprised that the employer is still not deducting ordered amounts from paychecks. Employers are only allowed to stop payments with a court order or, of course, if the employee is no longer employed there (which I suppose could be the case here). Also, a street address is required under FOC rules, so I am puzzled by this P.O. Box only, as well.
The $125,000 arrearage
is an ususually high amount of past due support, and amounts this high are supposed to be reported to the state automatically by the FOC, for state collection efforts to begin (deadbeat sweeps, tax refund and license withholding, etc). Any attempt to renew a license would result in arrest. But, again, the FOC in Michigan is a mess, so I guess I am not surprised if there has been some sort of a foul-up.
At any rate, I suggest continued contact with Bruce Patterson, Nancy Cassis, and your District Representative. Also, continue writing to Mike Cox. I
would suggest calling the FOC offices, but that is too often an exercise in futility. And checking out attorneys who may assist you with this is not a totally out-of-the-question idea.