Hello to all, I would like to start by saying that I am the step-father in this matter. I have read your reviews and am really surprised at the attacks, YES ATTACKS!!!. I agree that maybe Aubree(The child in question) should have been told at a very early age, therefore we would not be at this impass. With that said, we have seven children with our eigth due on the 26th of this month.....YIPPPEEEE!!!!!!! HENCE GR8MOM!!!! A large amount of you have accused my wife and by proxy, me of out right lying to our children. I guess that we simply do not know how to weigh the childs right to know with protecting her emotional wellbeing at this tender, emotional(going through puberty) stage in her life. Yes, her siblings love her, but for you people that have children, you already know how vindictive they can be(kids). For those that do not have children or are not experiencing the same, please keep your ignorant comments to yourself!!!! If you have children, then you know that it is a childs job to OSTERSIZE the other when an arguement is underway, don't you? or let me guess! you and your kids are perfect? If you lack the ability to give an an opinion that is not a personal attack, then please feel free to keep your rude comments to yourself. If we were rotten parents and did not care about our children(as some eluded to) we would not be asking for advice on this forum. I guess it is just easier to JUDGE others ? Seeing that the rude individuals on this site have zero past indescetions of their own! Have a great day and may God bless you all!