Texas - I recently had an affair (has since ended) and the other person is threatening to expose to not only my spouse but has already exposed to my pastor (I am a deacon in the church - I will most likely lose this position). The person is stating that if I do not meet with her and her demands (which she has not disclosed), she will be forced to continue communicating my bad decision to other important figures in my life including my employer. I have a very ethics driven position. I am willing to pay a retainer and start the legal process. I just don't know who to call.