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KTGIRL
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by faithful spouse:
Before you decide to stay with him, ask yourself if you honestly believe that he would NEVER cheat on you again.
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Faithful Spouse,
This is a long process, we are still seperated (seperate houses), but we are working toward building a new household TOGETHER. I can't say for sure that I beleive it won't happen again, but we will only get back together if I can believe it. Right now we are working together on issues that led to the situation, and while it seems that he didn't take the vows so seriously then, this situation has changed him as well. He now realizes what he has lost, and is working to gain it back. Things will never be totally the same, but they will be better. He's had over a year of seperation now to think about mistakes he made, I have as well. No one in this situation is blameless. But I know one thing, we still love each other. That's about as good a place as any to start.
Ktgirl
Before you decide to stay with him, ask yourself if you honestly believe that he would NEVER cheat on you again.
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Faithful Spouse,
This is a long process, we are still seperated (seperate houses), but we are working toward building a new household TOGETHER. I can't say for sure that I beleive it won't happen again, but we will only get back together if I can believe it. Right now we are working together on issues that led to the situation, and while it seems that he didn't take the vows so seriously then, this situation has changed him as well. He now realizes what he has lost, and is working to gain it back. Things will never be totally the same, but they will be better. He's had over a year of seperation now to think about mistakes he made, I have as well. No one in this situation is blameless. But I know one thing, we still love each other. That's about as good a place as any to start.
Ktgirl