it doesnt matter
i was told and suggested by a legal attorney to go ahead and pay him, it was the wrong advice and i did the best i could. how can you still sit here and say its not the reponsibility of that contractor to not have any change orders>?after all that is the bottom line?
i was told and suggested by a legal attorney to go ahead and pay him, it was the wrong advice and i did the best i could. how can you still sit here and say its not the reponsibility of that contractor to not have any change orders>?after all that is the bottom line?
I'm sorry to be the one to break it down for you but, your contractor's attorney will eat you for lunch and your daughter for dessert. You talk in circles. Bottom line: When you paid the contractor the additional expenses with no argument, you agreed to the price and the changes. You must have had an initial contract between the contractor and yourself in reference to the final price on your new home and any deviation from that initial contract would have to be documented. Since you willingly paid the additional $16,700, now in the eyes of the courts, it is now documented and you are the one who is reneging on a contract or agreement. Your willingness to pay is simply the ultimate indication that you agreed to your contractor's terms. Should you have felt his claim, that you owed him the additional costs was invalid, he should be the one taking you to court now to collect the additional costs but, NO, you willingly paid him.
Please, go back and read your posts above. Try to put yourself in the shoes of a judge hearing this case. When you realize that it was your very own ignorance that put you in this situation to begin with, you will save yourself and your daughter the embarrassment of reliving this experience in front of a crowded courtroom. Cut your losses now and save your money to purchase new furnishings for that nice, new house you built. If you choose to pursue this matter, you can rest assured that there are plenty of attorneys that will be willing to accept your money for this case. They have nothing to lose. You do. I would be willing to place a wager on the fact that you will also provoke a counterclaim by pursuing this case. In that event, just on listening to your above ramblings I would further bet that the contractor will prevail. In this event $16,700.00 was an inexpensive lesson, compared to what you'll be paying on his counterclaim.
I sincerely wish you the best in whatever your choice is but, be forewarned. You don't sound like you have a very strong case against this contractor. He may very well be a crook and believe me, I have nothing to gain or lose here by giving you my honest opinion. I'm just trying to save you additional money and further embarrassment by offering my honest opinion.
Please, keep us posted on the status of your case. I'm very curious as to the outcome.