enjay, noticed you mentioned my name. As bad as I hate to admit it, I've been keeping up with your nice little website. And as for this poster, nope, not me. For your info, my brother went to court with his ho, and guess what??? HE WON!!!!! After all the crap you people said would happen, it didn't. Once he got the ex on the stand, she waffled. No way she could lie about the adultery because there was plenty of proof. And once the judge heard testimony of how the father was the primary caregiver while the wife was out whoring around, that's all it took. He granted the father sole custody of the kid and the wife was left with nothing but visitation rights. So, the joke's on her, or should I say, all of you who told me it would go the mother's way.