Ever since he was six months old, he has cried every time when we've had exchanges because he wanted to spend more time with me. I brought this up in an email once where I said that he didn't like going back to his mom. This was deemed highly inappropriate by the GAL. All I was trying to do was tell her how he felt. She never proceeded to come to any exchanges to see this herself and now is bringing this one instance in court.
Due to multiple instances where she favored the mom, during one of the meetings I told her that it seemed to me that as a male, I wasn't being treated equally. This was also added in the motion.
Seriously? You knew at 6 mo. what your child was thinking? Your child could actually tell you "I don't like going back to mom"?
What a presumptuous little man you are!
Perhaps the GAL is "favoring" mom because those decisions are in the best interest of the child!
While, I am sure that you believe that your son is crying at exchanges because he wants to stay....he could be tired, he could not be feeling well, he could be hungry/thirsty. Don't automatically assume that just because a child cries at the exchanges it means that the child doesn't like the other parent or doesn't want to go to the other parent.
Don't assume that if something doesn't go your way it's because your a male. It could be because what you want is NOT in the best interest of the child.
And even if you assumption is correct about him not wanting to go to Mom after a visit with you--it was poor form to mention it. Mentioning it just incited more anger and discontent!
I think you are probably use to getting whatever you want, and it's not happening now and your having yourself a little temper tantrum.