OMG – he actually filed an answer in MD
I just went to the Md Judiciary search page, input my information and was shocked to see that he filed an answer yesterday…. I wonder if the email I sent to him the day before with the link to the DFAS giving full instructions on how to file for garnishment for a military retiree had anything to do with it…. I was hoping he would have made a deposit to my account, but this is just as good, we are a step closer and I don’t have to go to VA… Unless the courts begin the long drawn out process…. Prayerfully, we will be able to resolve this perhaps with the assistance of a mediator and get this reviewed by a master soon.
I plan to request the following:
Medical and dental coverage through the employer sponsored plan (PPO),
What the guidelines say in terms of money – not a dime less –
Retroactive increase from the date I filed, in one lump sum (he’s got it – always been very wise with his savings plan)
College tuition – seriously! I realize that may be a stretch, but our son is 6 years old and the catalogs that have been coming in the mail for my daughter (a senior in high school), the price tags go from $6,000 - $60,000 per year! It’s worth a try.
Am I leaving anything out?
OMG – he actually filed an answer in MD – yesterdayPersonally, I'd keep jurisdiction in MD. Who's telling you it takes 9 months to finalize in that State anyway? My girlfriend just finished up hers in 3 1/2 months. They are both within the same State, however, that shouldn't make a difference. I think, in the long run, you'll be happier you kept jurisdiction in MD.
I just went to the Md Judiciary search page, input my information and was shocked to see that he filed an answer yesterday…. I wonder if the email I sent to him the day before with the link to the DFAS giving full instructions on how to file for garnishment for a military retiree had anything to do with it…. I was hoping he would have made a deposit to my account, but this is just as good, we are a step closer and I don’t have to go to VA… Unless the courts begin the long drawn out process…. Prayerfully, we will be able to resolve this perhaps with the assistance of a mediator and get this reviewed by a master soon.
I plan to request the following:
Medical and dental coverage through the employer sponsored plan (PPO),
What the guidelines say in terms of money – not a dime less –
Retroactive increase from the date I filed, in one lump sum (he’s got it – always been very wise with his savings plan)
College tuition – seriously! I realize that may be a stretch, but our son is 6 years old and the catalogs that have been coming in the mail for my daughter (a senior in high school), the price tags go from $6,000 - $60,000 per year! It’s worth a try.
Am I leaving anything out?