I'll wager that many of these women do, in fact, collect CS. I'll also wager that most of them DO have jobs. Just basic background.
Just how freaking easy do you think it is to raise a child by yourself? How easy it is to do so on one income?
Um ... since you're only taking care of yourself, I don't think you can possibly relate to being the sole caretaker of another human being.
You've quite adequately proven that you're only capable of taking care of yourself.
OMG you are so wrong, 2 of my boys live with me out of 5 children (3 with ex wife and 2 with ex-girlfriend). One is not biologicaly mine but i claim him as my own because all she dates is loosers and he needs a role model. I give my ex-support for the one she takes care of witch is the little one .. (mother cheated on me when I was deployed:dispicable).. and you dont see me bi#@ing that shes not paying me.. I know she cant.. and I dont need it.. or want it..
.. and I dont find it hard to take care of my children. its not hard. maybe if your weak.. then you shouldnt even have the kids if its that hard for you... and why are most mothers still alone? Its the same reason they left their husband or boyfriend no man will ever be good enough. just like my last to ex's. they still alone 10 15 years later.. and dont claim its the children keeping you from having a man.. send them to thier father unless hes a looser.. and your opinion on loosers may be didfferent then mine.. you may say it just because he didnt fluff your pillows or forgot to bring milk home.. yeah I know your kind..
you think because im a NCP for 3 of my children I dont relate.. I do, its just im tired of the CP claiming poverty when its there own falt.. I got a job I work I take care of my kids.. and I send support.. My BI#@!ing if for CS ability to use the arrears that belongs to the Mother and child to threaten fathers who ARE paying by levy of accounts, loss of license, warrents for arrest and so on..
Think before you speak... get some facts.. quit claiming poverty and the "im all alone with kids".. its BS... those are choices the parents made.. I made choices and I chose to ask the mother to remove the arrears to release my credit.. not to not pay.. thats just stupid.. who ever said that is stupid.. everyone who reads the BS senior members are spilling is now dumber for reading there posts..
the only reason you have gotten over on the CS system is because the men who nocked you up were loosers.. so dont go lableing all men as loosers when its not true... there are plenty of women loosers to.. whats the saying I am women hear me roar.. LOL.. well Roar on.. but when you look back on your life and your and old shrivled up lady who hasnt done anything with her life but sit back and scream poverty and Im alone dont blame anyone but yourself..
If you want to do something then go out and do it. but dont blame a man for leaving you with the kids (Its your dicision that you have them right..) or for your lack of self esteam.
go to college, get a job. and Just basic background? WTH.. you gota be kidding. look at the posts all the posts... they are at home posting BS. and dame right they collecting CS.. cause they deserve it right.. NO,,, the children do.. But the women will take the support n buy there smokes n boozes and take BF's out to dinner with the money.. I know Ive seen it done.. why not get a good job so you dont need the money from a man.. wow thats what men do when they have custody... oh well.
Im tired of typing its usless trying to open eyes of people who just want to sit back and collect support and give out BS advice to people who may realy have an honest question...