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My ex and I divorced in N CA in 92. I got physical custody of 2 girls,now aged 17 & 14. I moved to NV 4 3 yrs & daughter visited Dad in VA in 12/99 decided to live there. Couldn't make them come back.em go. Anyway, since Dec 99, I have been sending him $250 to help out for their expenses...no court order.Plus money here and there for the girls. In May 00, had to quit my salary job for terrible personal reason and I have yet found a job who will pay me the same. I just started a job who will pay me a draw with commission (started Sept 1). I am having such financial difficulty right now and I am behind in every bills that I have. My ex has been harrassing me over the phone about the $250 and I told him I can't send any right now bec I simply don't have it. I have yet send $250 for Sept. He just now called me and said that the court in Virginia will be sending me court order to pay him child support. Who has jurisdiction on the amount & how will they calculate. My income has dropped 50% from last year. What state determines what? I need help..I want to help him but I just can't right now. What can I do?