Child's rights in California

[enjay]

What is the name of your state? CA

I think I know the answer to this question, but I'd like some verification. I have a friend who has been divorced since her child was very young. The child's father has had no contact with my friend or her child since the 7 year old was an infant.

She is under the impression that when her child turns 14, the child can make the decision to legally change her name and that if she chooses she can be adopted by her stepfather at that time.

Is my friend delusional?

 

[stealth2]

Yes.

(though it can be done with the biofather's consent, or a court order.)

 

[CaliCat]

If the biodad has been MIA so long, the courts may terminate his rights without his consent and allow the step-dad to adopt, regardless of her age.

 

[VeronicaGia]

If the biodad has been MIA so long, the courts may terminate his rights without his consent and allow the step-dad to adopt, regardless of her age.

Not necessarily. Our poster doesn't mention if dad pays support. If he does, that is considered contact with the child and not abandonment.

 

[CaliCat]

I was under the impression that he's doing nothing.

 

[stealth2]

Regardless, the CHILD does not make the decision.

 

[VeronicaGia]

Regardless, the CHILD does not make the decision.

Ditto. In any event, the father would have to be made aware of the proceedings to terminate his rights and the adoption.