State is FL.
I was just reading the post entitled "Step Parent Legal Rights" that was started by aglfr44, and wanted some clarification.
My husband has primary physical custody of his now 11 year old daughter. Her mom disappeared for over 4 years....has now sent 3 cards and made 1 phone call....we have no phone number for her, only an address. Hubby's had primary physical since late Sept of 2002.
I'm the one who goes for the IEP meetings and other school stuff. I usually take SD to the doc. Everyone knows I'm the stepmom. If I'm unfamiliar with them, or they with me, I volunteer the info.
Am I really doing something illegal by going to the IEPs, doctors visits etc.? I do have a POA for her that was signed by the hub. Hubby can't take a lot of time off from work since he's the sole provider for our household....I just figure it's a mom-ly duty....I'd do the same for my own 2 kids. Can the school or docs get into trouble for letting me have the info considering the messed up situation we're in with mom being MIA?
I want to do what's best for my SD. She's a good kid and I love her dearly...just as though she were mine.
Thanks, y'all.
Carol
I was just reading the post entitled "Step Parent Legal Rights" that was started by aglfr44, and wanted some clarification.
My husband has primary physical custody of his now 11 year old daughter. Her mom disappeared for over 4 years....has now sent 3 cards and made 1 phone call....we have no phone number for her, only an address. Hubby's had primary physical since late Sept of 2002.
I'm the one who goes for the IEP meetings and other school stuff. I usually take SD to the doc. Everyone knows I'm the stepmom. If I'm unfamiliar with them, or they with me, I volunteer the info.
Am I really doing something illegal by going to the IEPs, doctors visits etc.? I do have a POA for her that was signed by the hub. Hubby can't take a lot of time off from work since he's the sole provider for our household....I just figure it's a mom-ly duty....I'd do the same for my own 2 kids. Can the school or docs get into trouble for letting me have the info considering the messed up situation we're in with mom being MIA?
I want to do what's best for my SD. She's a good kid and I love her dearly...just as though she were mine.
Thanks, y'all.
Carol