I know allot of people may not agree to what I said but its true... I have been through divorce and child support twice. I have proven to the courts what this man is trying to say.. It is not hard. I speak from experience..
while it may be legal for a woman or man to have multiple partners it can be damaging to children and in some cases considered to be emosionaly abusive depending on the circumstances if not confronted the right way..
"For a parent to have multiple partners is very confusing for the child/children and when it becomes emotionaly hard for a child to deal with, its a form of abuse.."
Thats what the judge in colorado said to my ex-wife. it was generated from a statement writen from the child psychologist who examined my boys..
The children would get to like a person and then the mother and him have a fight and hes gone and this would happen over and over. Until my children didnt want to meet anyone. They would cause her problems at home and in school then throw fits and pretend to be sick.. It was way out of control..
Dont let it get that far Rob..
How do any of your posts help him or his children? you tell him he and his children have no rights.. They do.. Everyone has rights and so does his children.
Definitions of Child Abuse and Neglect: Summary of State Laws
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Rate This 3.7/5, 3 Reviews Series: State Statutes
Author(s): Child Welfare Information Gateway
Year Published: 2009
Current through July 2009
This brief introduction summarizes how States address this topic in statute. To access the statutes for a specific State or territory, visit the State Statutes Search.
Child abuse and neglect are defined by Federal and State laws. The Federal Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA) provides minimum standards that States must incorporate in their statutory definitions of child abuse and neglect. The CAPTA definition of "child abuse and neglect," at a minimum, refers to:
"Any recent act or failure to act on the part of a parent or caretaker, which results in death, serious physical or emotional harm, sexual abuse, or exploitation, or an act or failure to act which presents an imminent risk of serious harm"1
The CAPTA definition of "sexual abuse" includes:
"The employment, use, persuasion, inducement, enticement, or coercion of any child to engage in, or assist any other person to engage in, any sexually explicit conduct or simulation of such conduct for the purpose of producing a visual depiction of such conduct; or
The rape, and in cases of caretaker or interfamilial relationships, statutory rape, molestation, prostitution, or other form of sexual exploitation of children, or incest with children"2
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Types of Abuse
Nearly all States, the District of Columbia, American Samoa, Guam, the Northern Mariana Islands, Puerto Rico, and the U.S. Virgin Islands provide civil definitions of child abuse and neglect in statute.3 As applied to reporting statutes, these definitions determine the grounds for intervention by State child protective agencies.4 States recognize the different types of abuse in their definitions, including physical abuse, neglect, sexual abuse, and emotional abuse. Some States also provide definitions in statute for parental substance abuse and/or for abandonment as child abuse.
Physical Abuse
Physical abuse is generally defined as "any nonaccidental physical injury to the child" and can include striking, kicking, burning, or biting the child, or any action that results in a physical impairment of the child. In approximately 38 States and American Samoa, Guam, the Northern Mariana Islands, Puerto Rico, and the Virgin Islands, the definition of abuse also includes acts or circumstances that threaten the child with harm or create a substantial risk of harm to the child's health or welfare.5
Neglect
Neglect is frequently defined as the failure of a parent or other person with responsibility for the child to provide needed food, clothing, shelter, medical care, or supervision such that the child's health, safety, and well-being are threatened with harm. Approximately 24 States, the District of Columbia, American Samoa, Puerto Rico, and the Virgin Islands include failure to educate the child as required by law in their definition of neglect.6 Seven States specifically define medical neglect as failing to provide any special medical treatment or mental health care needed by the child.7 In addition, four States define as medical neglect the withholding of medical treatment or nutrition from disabled infants with life-threatening conditions.8
Sexual Abuse/Exploitation
All States include sexual abuse in their definitions of child abuse. Some States refer in general terms to sexual abuse, while others specify various acts as sexual abuse. Sexual exploitation is an element of the definition of sexual abuse in most jurisdictions. Sexual exploitation includes allowing the child to engage in prostitution or in the production of child pornography.
Emotional Abuse
Almost all States, the District of Columbia, American Samoa, Guam, the Northern Mariana Islands, Puerto Rico, and the Virgin Islands include emotional maltreatment as part of their definitions of abuse or neglect.9 Approximately 32 States, the District of Columbia, the Northern Mariana Islands, and Puerto Rico provide specific definitions of emotional abuse or mental injury to a child.10 Typical language used in these definitions is "injury to the psychological capacity or emotional stability of the child as evidenced by an observable or substantial change in behavior, emotional response, or cognition," or as evidenced by "anxiety, depression, withdrawal, or aggressive behavior."
Parental Substance Abuse
Parental substance abuse is an element of the definition of child abuse or neglect in some States.11 Circumstances that are considered abuse or neglect in some States include:
Prenatal exposure of a child to harm due to the mother's use of an illegal drug or other substance (14 States and the District of Columbia)12
Manufacture of a controlled substance in the presence of a child or on the premises occupied by a child (10 States)13
Allowing a child to be present where the chemicals or equipment for the manufacture of controlled substances are used or stored (three States)14
Selling, distributing, or giving drugs or alcohol to a child (seven States and Guam)15
Use of a controlled substance by a caregiver that impairs the caregiver's ability to adequately care for the child (seven States)16
Abandonment
Approximately 17 States and the District of Columbia include abandonment in their definition of abuse or neglect, generally as a type of neglect.17 Approximately 18 States, Guam, Puerto Rico, and the Virgin Islands provide definitions for abandonment that are separate from the definition of neglect.18 In general, it is considered abandonment of the child when the parent's identity or whereabouts are unknown, the child has been left by the parent in circumstances in which the child suffers serious harm, or the parent has failed to maintain contact with the child or to provide reasonable support for a specified period of time.
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Standards for Reporting
Generally speaking, a report must be made when an individual knows or has reasonable cause to believe or suspect that a child has been subjected to abuse or neglect. These standards guide mandatory reporters in deciding whether to make a report to child protective services.
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Persons Responsible for the Child
In addition to defining acts or omissions that constitute child abuse or neglect, several States' statutes provide specific definitions of persons who can be reported to child protective services as perpetrators of abuse or neglect. These are persons who have some relationship or regular responsibility for the child. This generally includes parents, guardians, foster parents, relatives, or other caregivers responsible for the child's welfare.
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Exceptions
A number of States provide exceptions in their reporting laws that exempt certain acts or omissions from their statutory definitions of child abuse and neglect. For instance, in 12 States and the District of Columbia, financial inability to provide for a child is exempted from the definition of neglect.19 In 16 States, the District of Columbia, American Samoa, and the Northern Mariana Islands, physical discipline of a child, as long as it is reasonable and causes no bodily injury to the child, is an exception to the definition of abuse.20
The CAPTA amendments of 1996 added provisions specifying that nothing in the Act be construed as establishing a Federal requirement that a parent or legal guardian provide any medical service or treatment that is against the religious beliefs of the parent or legal guardian (42 U.S.C. § 5106i). At the State level, 31 States, the District of Columbia, Guam, and Puerto Rico provide in their civil child abuse reporting laws an exception to the definition of child abuse and neglect for parents who choose not to seek medical care for their children due to religious beliefs.21 However, 16 of the 31 States and Puerto Rico authorize the court to order medical treatment for the child when the child's condition warrants intervention.22 Three States specifically provide an exception for Christian Science treatment.23 Five States require mandated reporters to report instances when a child is not receiving medical care so that an investigation can be made.24
Each state hase there own definition on abuse, you have to do your own homework of course to find out what is considered abuse but for california and colorado I know when my children were crying to me and their counselors at school about how many men were coming in and out of her life. It was heart breaking